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Subject: Just ended my friendship with my bestfriend

:)

Posted by: Decieved Soul

Posted by: MyNameIsCharlie
You did the right thing. It hurts now, I know, but you will be in a better way soon. That took guts, and you did it.
Thank you. Thank you everybody who says I did the right thing. I thought I was in the wrong but you've convinced me otherwise. Thank you. Everyone


Kinda odd how mixed the Flood can be at times, at one moment they help someone out in need and the next they will be arguing about girl gamers...

[Edited on 01.02.2013 5:18 PM PST]

  • 01.02.2013 5:17 PM PDT

Good man, and anytime! Glad to see it all got better!
Posted by: Nephilim713

Posted by: Decieved Soul

Posted by: Nephilim713
I remember when I almost lost one of my best friends because she was clearly acting two. I even pointed it out to her, and she eventually understood, though we didnt talk for like 4-5 days =[
She chose her boyfriend over me and then came over 5 days later and said she couldn't stand not talking to me. Well, I cant do it anymore. It hurts so bad. And I'm glad to see it worked out for you man


Well thanks. I was really angry with my friend that day, even sent her a terribly angry email and all. Then she said she was really acting two and didnt mean anything she said at all. Yeah, well we have been talking for too long now. Forum friend, eventually becoming a great best friend.

  • 01.02.2013 5:17 PM PDT
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Shes a chick her purpose in life is to abuse mens emotions just ignore her erase her from your mind now OP. Rest!

  • 01.02.2013 5:17 PM PDT


Posted by: ravingmasher626
Posted by: Decieved Soul

Posted by: MyNameIsCharlie
You did the right thing. It hurts now, I know, but you will be in a better way soon. That took guts, and you did it.
Thank you. Thank you everybody who says I did the right thing. I thought I was in the wrong but you've convinced me otherwise. Thank you. Everyone


Kinda odd how mixed the Flood can be at times, at one moment they help someone out in need and the next they will be arguing about girl gamers...
I know. Honestly, I love how people are saying I did the right thing and good job. I'm feeling so much better, slowly. Again, thank you, all of you. I just wonder what she'll say and if we'll be friends again..

  • 01.02.2013 5:18 PM PDT
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I understand nothing because my life is a conspiracy.

Through a text? Talking face to face is the only way to know if you truly mean what you are saying.

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  • 01.02.2013 5:20 PM PDT

Its not my actions that define me, but under what light I'm being looked upon.


Me after a physics lecture "So what you're saying is, non of it actually exists"
Yellow box "and I thought we were crazy"

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do yourself a piece of toast ,
wait for heavens mailman of in fo post.

slice open the letter ,
in the end you'll feel better ,
with the news you should know if you can net'aaa!

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  • 01.02.2013 5:21 PM PDT

I r guy who gun to teach u lesson

Good job, not a lot of people can deal with saying how they feel. It is a lot easier to just end something than actually explain. Although face to face might have been better I can see why you went with a text.

  • 01.02.2013 5:24 PM PDT

:)

Posted by: Decieved Soul

Posted by: ravingmasher626
Posted by: Decieved Soul

Posted by: MyNameIsCharlie
You did the right thing. It hurts now, I know, but you will be in a better way soon. That took guts, and you did it.
Thank you. Thank you everybody who says I did the right thing. I thought I was in the wrong but you've convinced me otherwise. Thank you. Everyone


Kinda odd how mixed the Flood can be at times, at one moment they help someone out in need and the next they will be arguing about girl gamers...
I know. Honestly, I love how people are saying I did the right thing and good job. I'm feeling so much better, slowly. Again, thank you, all of you. I just wonder what she'll say and if we'll be friends again..


Don't think that way, that's yourself trying to put certain little possibilities into your head and you will keep thinking about the situation.

I've been in a situation similar to that, you just have to think about other things. Start having fun again, play with your friends on some games or talk to some new people on Facebook. Make yourself a PIZZA.

  • 01.02.2013 5:25 PM PDT

Posted by: Billygoat456
I'll bring the tritium laser cutters if you bring the beer!

Funny story.

I've seen this thread before.

  • 01.02.2013 5:25 PM PDT

She responded. She's trying to guilt me. "I knew you would leave sooner or later. I'm getting harder to deal with. It's okay. I hate me too."

What the hell

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  • 01.02.2013 5:26 PM PDT


Posted by: lime013
Through a text? Talking face to face is the only way to know if you truly mean what you are saying.
Cut the man some slack it's not everyday we have to say goodbye to our best friend. Not to mention it's never easy no matter what method is used to do it.

  • 01.02.2013 5:26 PM PDT


Posted by: Decieved Soul
She responded. She's trying to guilt me


Tell us

  • 01.02.2013 5:27 PM PDT

:)

Posted by: Decieved Soul
She responded. She's trying to guilt me


That's because she knows what she's been doing and is guilty herself.

  • 01.02.2013 5:27 PM PDT

What if I told you...

*scoots in closer*

I hate you

Good job, OP, dont put up with bull-blam!- if it interferes with your life. But I do hope you two make up sometime soon.

EDIT: WAT, shes turning it around on you now?

[Edited on 01.02.2013 5:28 PM PST]

  • 01.02.2013 5:28 PM PDT

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Posted by: Decieved Soul

Posted by: linos100
Go play Dark Souls, or Mega Man X or Halo 2 Campaign on Legendary, that may help.
I don't have my xbox at the moment All I have is Minecraft on my computer and I don't know of any good servers
Download TF2. And good on you.

  • 01.02.2013 5:29 PM PDT
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Adjective noun is Adjective.

All I picked up was that a "promiscuous one" is a "female dog."

Ho nelly.

You did the right thing, now stop giving a -blam!- cos she's not worth your damn time.

Proud, son.

[Edited on 01.02.2013 5:31 PM PST]

  • 01.02.2013 5:30 PM PDT

I've been ignoring everyone. I'm not in the mood to talk. And I don't think I have said 2 words about Austin since the day you first asked about him. You bring him up all the time. I rarely talk to him. It isn't my fault you've created some scenario in you're head about me and Austin. But it's okay. You can give up on me. Everyone does eventually. I didn't expect you to stay much longer anyways. I'm getting harder to deal with and I know it. So it's okay. I hate me too. What am I supposed to say?

  • 01.02.2013 5:30 PM PDT

No offense OP, but if you end any sort of connection through a text, that's a really low move. Despite what may have crossed between you two, it's always better to confront the problem face to face.

Posted by: Decieved Soul
I've had enough. It was the hardest text to send in my life but I did it.


[Edited on 01.02.2013 5:35 PM PST]

  • 01.02.2013 5:31 PM PDT

What if I told you...

*scoots in closer*

I hate you


Posted by: Decieved Soul
She responded. She's trying to guilt me. "I knew you would leave sooner or later. I'm getting harder to deal with. It's okay. I hate me too."

What the hell

Why doesnt she fix herself then?

When I'm in these situations, I feel like Im the only with a brain compared to everyone else dealing with the situation. OP, that girl needs to take a vacation.

  • 01.02.2013 5:31 PM PDT


Posted by: Decieved Soul
She responded. She's trying to guilt me. "I knew you would leave sooner or later. I'm getting harder to deal with. It's okay. I hate me too."

What the hell


This is the part where you ignore her. But you won't but you are caught in her web. She is just trying to make you feel sorry for her so you can go back to being her little puppy. Don't do it, have some self respect.

  • 01.02.2013 5:31 PM PDT

Do you like Green Eggs and Ham???

Nicely done.

  • 01.02.2013 5:32 PM PDT

What if I told you...

*scoots in closer*

I hate you


Posted by: Decieved Soul
I've been ignoring everyone. I'm not in the mood to talk. And I don't think I have said 2 words about Austin since the day you first asked about him. You bring him up all the time. I rarely talk to him. It isn't my fault you've created some scenario in you're head about me and Austin. But it's okay. You can give up on me. Everyone does eventually. I didn't expect you to stay much longer anyways. I'm getting harder to deal with and I know it. So it's okay. I hate me too. What am I supposed to say?

It is her fault for not communicating to you and setting it straight, now she waited too long and now the -blam!- hit the fan.

[Edited on 01.02.2013 5:33 PM PST]

  • 01.02.2013 5:33 PM PDT
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Adjective noun is Adjective.


Posted by: Decieved Soul
I've been ignoring everyone. I'm not in the mood to talk. And I don't think I have said 2 words about Austin since the day you first asked about him. You bring him up all the time. I rarely talk to him. It isn't my fault you've created some scenario in you're head about me and Austin. But it's okay. You can give up on me. Everyone does eventually. I didn't expect you to stay much longer anyways. I'm getting harder to deal with and I know it. So it's okay. I hate me too. What am I supposed to say?


Maybe comfort her, but not much. Do not get involved by any means.

  • 01.02.2013 5:33 PM PDT
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"It's not who I am underneath, but what I do that defines me."

Good job OP. If someone doesn't respect you and just uses you, they're not worth your time.

If I were you I'd completely ignore any contact she tries to initiate.

  • 01.02.2013 5:34 PM PDT


Posted by: Decieved Soul
I've been ignoring everyone. I'm not in the mood to talk. And I don't think I have said 2 words about Austin since the day you first asked about him. You bring him up all the time. I rarely talk to him. It isn't my fault you've created some scenario in you're head about me and Austin. But it's okay. You can give up on me. Everyone does eventually. I didn't expect you to stay much longer anyways. I'm getting harder to deal with and I know it. So it's okay. I hate me too. What am I supposed to say?
Honestly tell her she's being ridiculous for trying to blame you when she's been treating you like crap. Don't comfort her like someone else said. You need to be assertive and make sure she knows that she isn't going to treat you like crap any more.

This isn't about her, this is about you.

[Edited on 01.02.2013 5:36 PM PST]

  • 01.02.2013 5:35 PM PDT