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Subject: Just ended my friendship with my bestfriend

we both know nobody cares about me. Maybe 2 or 3. That's it. You included. If I died tomorrow, no matter how, I bet you nobody would care after the first week of me being gone. I'm sorry that you have feelings for me and that it makes it hard on you. But that isn't my fault. I didn't do that. Nobody picked that. But that doesn't make it just hard on you. It makes it hard for me too. I don't hangout with you because of it. I'd kill him if he was best friends with some girl who had feelings for him. Especially if they hangout. I can't please everyone. I was trying my best. I'm sorry that wasn't good enough for you. I'm sorry that I can't be what you want. I'm sorry I'm dating him and despite him upsetting me here and there, he cares about me. Surprise. That boy has done a lot for me. And most of the time I'm already upset and don't say anything and he says one little insignificant thing and it sets me off. Because it builds up. It isn't always him. And I know it seems that way but it isn't. It's just what sets me off sometimes. I'm sick of hearing about how "horrible he is" and how "miserable he makes me" because that isn't really the case. I'm a -blam!- up sad depressed crazy person. And it's constant. And sometimes he just brings that out a little more. He isn't the only one who does it either. It isn't like I chose this. It isn't like I want to be sad constantly. It's horrible and I hate it and I hate that other people go through what I do too. But I can't fix it. If I leave Brody, it will be worse. I know that because I tried it. I know what I'm doing may not seem like it, but it's the best for me. At least right now. I'm sorry you can't accept that. I'm sorry that my life pisses you off and I'm sorry is pushed you to the point where you don't want to deal with me any more. I'm sorry I'm not -blam!- perfect. But if you're really going to leave me alone, especially today, on these terms, and after what you've said to me, then no. I don't care. Because you obviously don't care as much as you say. If that's what's gonna happen. Thank you for contributing to my -blam!- day.
Ps. I'm not trying to guilt you, I'm being -blam!- honest.
wtf

  • 01.02.2013 5:57 PM PDT

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Posted by: BanjoKazooie0
*pats shoulder* "That'll do soul that"ll do

  • 01.02.2013 5:59 PM PDT

She'll be fine.

  • 01.02.2013 6:00 PM PDT

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She really cant of been your best friend if she treated you so badly. Seems to me she was just a 'friend' who used you for whatever reason.

  • 01.02.2013 6:01 PM PDT

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Dude.....you are the biggest man on this forum ive ever seen and you are bigger man than ill ever be. Good job.

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  • 01.02.2013 6:01 PM PDT

Did the same with my old friend when my ex that I still love told me they were dating.

  • 01.02.2013 6:01 PM PDT

What if I told you...

*scoots in closer*

I hate you


Posted by: Decieved Soul
wtf

No offense OP, but she sounds like an idiot.

  • 01.02.2013 6:02 PM PDT
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Posted by: DEATHPIMP72
Anyone but Foman. He smells like cheese.

OP, that text was completely inappropriate. If you want to stop being friends with the girl, just stop talking to her. Trying to make her feel guilty for keeping you in the friendzone and causing drama where there need not be any is completely juvenile behavior.

You're being creepy now, and trust me, that's exactly what all of this girl's friends are telling her. You -blam!- up the entire relationship by being friendzoned in the first place; don't worry about it, it happens to all of us. Just cut your losses and move on like a man. This breakup text crap is for middle school-aged children.

  • 01.02.2013 6:02 PM PDT


Posted by: HighCoin
Dude.....you are the biggest man on this forum ive ever seen and you are bigger man than ill ever be. Good job.
:D

  • 01.02.2013 6:02 PM PDT

How is it creepy? Everyone else here seems to disagree and says it was appropriate.
Posted by: x Foman123 x
OP, that text was completely inappropriate. If you want to stop being friends with the girl, just stop talking to her. Trying to make her feel guilty for keeping you in the friendzone and causing drama where there need not be any is completely juvenile behavior.

You're being creepy now, and trust me, that's exactly what all of this girl's friends are telling her. You -blam!- up the entire relationship by being friendzoned in the first place; don't worry about it, it happens to all of us. Just cut your losses and move on like a man. This breakup text crap is for middle school-aged children.

  • 01.02.2013 6:03 PM PDT

I like shorts. They're comfy and easy to wear.

I still think you should have faked your death.

  • 01.02.2013 6:03 PM PDT

What if I told you...

*scoots in closer*

I hate you


Posted by: SonOfTheShire
I still think you should have faked your death.

Be like that one woman that came back from the dead at her own funeral and then died of a heart attack at the idea that it was her funeral.

  • 01.02.2013 6:04 PM PDT
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Posted by: Decieved Soul

Posted by: HighCoin
Dude.....you are the biggest man on this forum ive ever seen and you are bigger man than ill ever be. Good job.
:D


Don't smile at that. HighCoin is most probably another person of similar age to you who would do something just as juvenile. You'll learn the hard way that trying to get what you want from a girl by guilt tripping her just leads to worse things down the line. Even if she suddenly 'woke up' and saw you for the angel you think you are, it wouldn't last more than a month. You've already given her everything she needs to destroy you if you do get with her, your balls.

Just drop her if you don't want to talk to her. Good luck.

  • 01.02.2013 6:06 PM PDT
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Posted by: x Foman123 x
OP, that text was completely inappropriate. If you want to stop being friends with the girl, just stop talking to her. Trying to make her feel guilty for keeping you in the friendzone and causing drama where there need not be any is completely juvenile behavior.

You're being creepy now, and trust me, that's exactly what all of this girl's friends are telling her. You -blam!- up the entire relationship by being friendzoned in the first place; don't worry about it, it happens to all of us. Just cut your losses and move on like a man. This breakup text crap is for middle school-aged children.

I actually agree with this, you should've just ignored her. Now you're fueling the fire and she's pissed of at you instead of feeling guilty for what she's done.

  • 01.02.2013 6:06 PM PDT

she sounds like a -blam!-

  • 01.02.2013 6:06 PM PDT

Well, I've been economical with the truth.

That was probably the best and most mature thing you could have done, and just putting this in there, you did it flawlessly. There will be hurt, but when is there never?

You did the right thing OP, sadly things didn't end well, but be proud you had the guts to end it the right way.

  • 01.02.2013 6:07 PM PDT

:)

Posted by: InToXiCaTi0n

Posted by: Decieved Soul

Posted by: HighCoin
Dude.....you are the biggest man on this forum ive ever seen and you are bigger man than ill ever be. Good job.
:D


Don't smile at that. HighCoin is most probably another person of similar age to you who would do something just as juvenile. You'll learn the hard way that trying to get what you want from a girl by guilt tripping her just leads to worse things down the line. Even if she suddenly 'woke up' and saw you for the angel you think you are, it wouldn't last more than a month. You've already given her everything she needs to destroy you if you do get with her, your balls.

Just drop her if you don't want to talk to her. Good luck.


I think everyones is just thinking about how he just likes her. I think he's just trying to restore his friendship, not to be with her. They've both talked about it and how it's not going to happen.

I would talk with my closest friends too if they suddenly stopped talking to me and purposely ignored me.

  • 01.02.2013 6:08 PM PDT
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Posted by: DEATHPIMP72
Anyone but Foman. He smells like cheese.

Posted by: Decieved Soul
How is it creepy? Everyone else here seems to disagree and says it was appropriate.
Trust me, it wasn't. Not to discount anyone else's opinion, but I have two sisters and lots of female friends (who I actually want to be friends with, not who I got "friendzoned" by because I wanted a romantic relationship).

This is why you don't come to the Flood for relationship advice. I'll go try to find some people who agree that this is creepy.

  • 01.02.2013 6:08 PM PDT


Posted by: x Foman123 x
Posted by: Decieved Soul
How is it creepy? Everyone else here seems to disagree and says it was appropriate.
Trust me, it wasn't. Not to discount anyone else's opinion, but I have two sisters and lots of female friends (who I actually want to be friends with, not who I got "friendzoned" by because I wanted a romantic relationship).

This is why you don't come to the Flood for relationship advice. I'll go try to find some people who agree that this is creepy.
Oh alright.

  • 01.02.2013 6:09 PM PDT

''Hell is other people.''


Posted by: x Foman123 x
Posted by: Decieved Soul
How is it creepy? Everyone else here seems to disagree and says it was appropriate.
Trust me, it wasn't. Not to discount anyone else's opinion, but I have two sisters and lots of female friends (who I actually want to be friends with, not who I got "friendzoned" by because I wanted a romantic relationship).

This is why you don't come to the Flood for relationship advice. I'll go try to find some people who agree that this is creepy.
I definitely agree that that's creepy.

  • 01.02.2013 6:09 PM PDT
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Posted by: ravingmasher626
Posted by: InToXiCaTi0n

Posted by: Decieved Soul

Posted by: HighCoin
Dude.....you are the biggest man on this forum ive ever seen and you are bigger man than ill ever be. Good job.
:D


Don't smile at that. HighCoin is most probably another person of similar age to you who would do something just as juvenile. You'll learn the hard way that trying to get what you want from a girl by guilt tripping her just leads to worse things down the line. Even if she suddenly 'woke up' and saw you for the angel you think you are, it wouldn't last more than a month. You've already given her everything she needs to destroy you if you do get with her, your balls.

Just drop her if you don't want to talk to her. Good luck.


I think everyones is just thinking about how he just likes her. I think he's just trying to restore his friendship, not to be with her. They've both talked about it and how it's not going to happen.

I would talk with my closest friends too if they suddenly stopped talking to me and purposely ignored me.
This.

  • 01.02.2013 6:10 PM PDT

Well, I've been economical with the truth.


Posted by: x Foman123 x
OP, that text was completely inappropriate. If you want to stop being friends with the girl, just stop talking to her. Trying to make her feel guilty for keeping you in the friendzone and causing drama where there need not be any is completely juvenile behavior.

You're being creepy now, and trust me, that's exactly what all of this girl's friends are telling her. You -blam!- up the entire relationship by being friendzoned in the first place; don't worry about it, it happens to all of us. Just cut your losses and move on like a man. This breakup text crap is for middle school-aged children.
Come on Froman, whats done is done and I don't think it is creepy of all things, but girls are gunna talk regardless, and I think most of us know that. I think it's better OP did this instead of completely ignoring her, due to that probably recurring in an awkward discussion of how and why he isn't talking to her anymore.

  • 01.02.2013 6:11 PM PDT

Yeah, a lot of people on THE FLOOD said it was appropriate. Even if you were going to do this whole "difficult" talk do it like a man face-to-face. Sending a text is just childish.

It seems all you managed to do was piss her off, like others have said, just drop it and move on. What's the point of dwelling on this and creating unnecessary drama that's just going to lessen everyone's lives.?

  • 01.02.2013 6:12 PM PDT

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Posted by: Decieved Soul
wtf


Judging from your last post I would get out fast. It is very obvious she is suffering from some emotional problems and if she's denying her boyfriend isn't contributing then maybe shes in denial. It seems to me she has been venting this misplaced sadness onto you, wether or not this was because she trusted you or not I do not know.

I think its time to cut all ties to her and move on, because both of you talking is just going to create more problems for you and her. I know this sucks but women are complicated, and ones with emotional problems are extremely hard to deal with - I've known my fair share but nothing like this.

I think you'll find she was really hurt by your text, but -blam!- happens.

  • 01.02.2013 6:13 PM PDT

1LUV

You were kicked around by a woman? lol

  • 01.02.2013 6:13 PM PDT