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Subject: Just ended my friendship with my bestfriend

Posted by: FatherlyNick
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Posted by: dtyler27106
How did you send a text message that long?


lol, it probably took him like 45 minutes to write it

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Posted by: Decieved Soul
We almost dated when we first met, then stopped talking and then we were bestfriends. I would've told her in person but she can never hangout. Brutally honest indeed, but I'm sorry you feel that way. I'm in no way an emo kid. I'm 6'4" and on the basketball team but okay. Thanks for the input. And dually noted


I doubt any of that is true. Based on the rest of what you said, you probably misread an easy social cue, as she wanted ur D. The whole she can never hang out thing, thats the cue that she really didnt want to.... Anyone can hang out sometime, regardless of how busy they are, trust me. And if you are 6'4" on the basketball team, why are you so hung up on one girl. Have some self confidence you putz.

  • 01.02.2013 6:37 PM PDT

Posted by: C Dirty 4
Reach essentially has put the "I" in "Team".


Remember, the enemy's gate is down


Posted by: ravingmasher626
Posted by: General Noobus
Absolutely pathetic. She obviously doesn't see you as boyfriend material, most probably because you're an emo little whinger who has absolutely no confidence and comes across as creepy irl. It's not her fault you ended up in the friendzone, it's yours.

Next time don't try to be her goddamn friend, if she's taken already make it known to her that you want her then back off and wait instead of hanging around like a lovesick puppy. There's truth to the saying "Nice guys finish last", don't be overly nice, or even worse try to be friends, with a chick you want to go out with


Again, I think this is more about his friendship and less of the dating aspect. Take away how he likes her and then see himself in his situation, and I'm sure she doesn't find this creepy as they are really close friends. She should know what to expect.


Don't even try to tell me his feelings were totally platonic at first and their friendship just slowly made him feel differently. Guys don't work that way. Source: I'm a guy.

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This.
Posted by: Painis Cupcake
Carry on.if a friend is a jerk to you, then they aren't a real friend.

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Posted by: ravingmasher626
Posted by: General Noobus
Absolutely pathetic. She obviously doesn't see you as boyfriend material, most probably because you're an emo little whinger who has absolutely no confidence and comes across as creepy irl. It's not her fault you ended up in the friendzone, it's yours.

Next time don't try to be her goddamn friend, if she's taken already make it known to her that you want her then back off and wait instead of hanging around like a lovesick puppy. There's truth to the saying "Nice guys finish last", don't be overly nice, or even worse try to be friends, with a chick you want to go out with


Again, I think this is more about his friendship and less of the dating aspect. Take away how he likes her and then see himself in his situation, and I'm sure she doesn't find this creepy as they are really close friends. She should know what to expect.


what????

You cant take out his feelings, nor hers. Thats why its so creepy. I have the feeling you dont talk to girls very often...

  • 01.02.2013 6:38 PM PDT

Posted by: C Dirty 4
Reach essentially has put the "I" in "Team".


Remember, the enemy's gate is down


Posted by: Decimator Omega
This.
Posted by: Painis Cupcake
Carry on.if a friend is a jerk to you, then they aren't a real friend.


A friend denying your advances doesn't make them a jerk.

Also, her feeling uncomfortable and distancing herself from him after because she has a boyfriend doesn't make her a jerk either.

  • 01.02.2013 6:39 PM PDT

By the gods what are you doing here, well don't just stand there man make the tea! Make yourself useful and look at my Fileshare.

There there buddy

If you need something to do, spend some time making your coup easier on my eyes, that blue text hurts.

  • 01.02.2013 6:40 PM PDT
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mfw this thread

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Posted by: HaVOk1228

Posted by: Decimator Omega
This.
Posted by: Painis Cupcake
Carry on.if a friend is a jerk to you, then they aren't a real friend.


A friend denying your advances doesn't make them a jerk.

Also, her feeling uncomfortable and distancing herself from him after because she has a boyfriend doesn't make her a jerk either.

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So do all who live to see such times, but that is not for them to decide. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given to us.

-Gandalf

O rly? Did you not read the entire OP? What about the other friend?
Posted by: HaVOk1228

Posted by: Decimator Omega
This.
Posted by: Painis Cupcake
Carry on.if a friend is a jerk to you, then they aren't a real friend.


A friend denying your advances doesn't make them a jerk.

Also, her feeling uncomfortable and distancing herself from him after because she has a boyfriend doesn't make her a jerk either.

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OP IS A BETA

  • 01.02.2013 6:41 PM PDT

*scratches nuts*


Posted by: Decieved Soul
I'm in no way an emo kid. I'm 6'4" and on the basketball team but okay. Thanks for the input. And dually noted
Physical attributes don't determine emoness, sending 2000 character texts to the girl that put you in the friendzone telling her your feelings is. Man up, realize a lost cause when you see one, and don't let -blam!-es run your life. Females are disposable, there's plenty out there. Getting onesitis only serves to put you through this emotional bull-blam!- you're going through now.

If you get friendzoned you cut your loses and move on, persisting will only hurt you. Let this be a warning for any other kids out there in the same situation.

  • 01.02.2013 6:41 PM PDT

:)

Posted by: HaVOk1228

Posted by: ravingmasher626
Posted by: General Noobus
Absolutely pathetic. She obviously doesn't see you as boyfriend material, most probably because you're an emo little whinger who has absolutely no confidence and comes across as creepy irl. It's not her fault you ended up in the friendzone, it's yours.

Next time don't try to be her goddamn friend, if she's taken already make it known to her that you want her then back off and wait instead of hanging around like a lovesick puppy. There's truth to the saying "Nice guys finish last", don't be overly nice, or even worse try to be friends, with a chick you want to go out with


Again, I think this is more about his friendship and less of the dating aspect. Take away how he likes her and then see himself in his situation, and I'm sure she doesn't find this creepy as they are really close friends. She should know what to expect.


Don't even try to tell me his feelings were totally platonic at first and their friendship just slowly made him feel differently. Guys don't work that way. Source: I'm a guy.


Yes I agree at first his intentions were just about liking her, but then they become closer and something more special then a teenage fling. From what I can see he's just upset that he's lost a very close friend.

That, or I've seen the completely wrong image and he just wants to have her. I've PM'd him asking him if it's purely about his friendship, I'm waiting for a reply.

And hey I'm a guy too!

  • 01.02.2013 6:41 PM PDT
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That was painful to read. It sounds like you handled this badly, put her in an uncomfortable position, and now blame her for the resulting position when she has to handle having a boyfriend and a "friend" creeping on her hardcore. I'm surprised she maintained any sort of contact with you.

If you had a girlfriend, would you hang out with other girls you knew were obsessed with you?

  • 01.02.2013 6:43 PM PDT

Posted by: C Dirty 4
Reach essentially has put the "I" in "Team".


Remember, the enemy's gate is down


Posted by: Decimator Omega
O rly? Did you not read the entire OP? What about the other friend?
Posted by: HaVOk1228

Posted by: Decimator Omega
This.
Posted by: Painis Cupcake
Carry on.if a friend is a jerk to you, then they aren't a real friend.


A friend denying your advances doesn't make them a jerk.

Also, her feeling uncomfortable and distancing herself from him after because she has a boyfriend doesn't make her a jerk either.


OP being jealous of two guys, still not making the girl a jerk. Who else her friends are is no business of the OP.

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  • 01.02.2013 6:44 PM PDT

Bro it sounds like you just creeped out a girl who was clearly not interested.

Don't do that

  • 01.02.2013 6:44 PM PDT

:)

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Posted by: ravingmasher626
Posted by: General Noobus
Absolutely pathetic. She obviously doesn't see you as boyfriend material, most probably because you're an emo little whinger who has absolutely no confidence and comes across as creepy irl. It's not her fault you ended up in the friendzone, it's yours.

Next time don't try to be her goddamn friend, if she's taken already make it known to her that you want her then back off and wait instead of hanging around like a lovesick puppy. There's truth to the saying "Nice guys finish last", don't be overly nice, or even worse try to be friends, with a chick you want to go out with


Again, I think this is more about his friendship and less of the dating aspect. Take away how he likes her and then see himself in his situation, and I'm sure she doesn't find this creepy as they are really close friends. She should know what to expect.


what????

You cant take out his feelings, nor hers. Thats why its so creepy. I have the feeling you dont talk to girls very often...


I admit I don't have much experience with women but then again I am only 18, and I want to find someone nice (I want a meaningful relationship). I have many female friends that I don't think of in that way and I thought that he was having a problem with a friend, not some potential love interest.

I learn a lot on these forums sometimes...

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Posted by: Decimator Omega
O rly? Did you not read the entire OP? What about the other friend?
Posted by: HaVOk1228

Posted by: Decimator Omega
This.
Posted by: Painis Cupcake
Carry on.if a friend is a jerk to you, then they aren't a real friend.


A friend denying your advances doesn't make them a jerk.

Also, her feeling uncomfortable and distancing herself from him after because she has a boyfriend doesn't make her a jerk either.


He probably hasnt tried getting in her pants... Idk if you guys watch too much anime, or have only seen romantic comedies to gauge how someone how someone should act, but shes allowed to have as many people as friends as she wants. That goes for anyone. If she doesnt feel comfortable around him, or he does something she doesnt like, its up to her discretion whether or not to keep the OP as a friend.

Clearly he creeped too hard.

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Sorry, but I disagree with your point of view.
Posted by: HaVOk1228

Posted by: Decimator Omega
O rly? Did you not read the entire OP? What about the other friend?
Posted by: HaVOk1228

Posted by: Decimator Omega
This.
Posted by: Painis Cupcake
Carry on.if a friend is a jerk to you, then they aren't a real friend.


A friend denying your advances doesn't make them a jerk.

Also, her feeling uncomfortable and distancing herself from him after because she has a boyfriend doesn't make her a jerk either.


OP being jealous of two guys, still not making the girl a jerk. Who else her friends are is no business of the OP.

  • 01.02.2013 6:45 PM PDT

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Well, now you have all your feeling on the table.

No regrets, I guess.

  • 01.02.2013 6:46 PM PDT

Posted by: C Dirty 4
Reach essentially has put the "I" in "Team".


Remember, the enemy's gate is down


Posted by: Decimator Omega
Sorry, but I disagree with your point of view.
Posted by: HaVOk1228

Posted by: Decimator Omega
O rly? Did you not read the entire OP? What about the other friend?
Posted by: HaVOk1228

Posted by: Decimator Omega
This.


A friend denying your advances doesn't make them a jerk.

Also, her feeling uncomfortable and distancing herself from him after because she has a boyfriend doesn't make her a jerk either.


OP being jealous of two guys, still not making the girl a jerk. Who else her friends are is no business of the OP.


You disagree and believe that a girl who just wants to be friends with a guy is being a jerk?

Wat.

  • 01.02.2013 6:48 PM PDT

*scratches nuts*

Posted by: Lies
If you had a girlfriend, would you hang out with other girls you knew were obsessed with you?
Or, if you had a girlfriend, would you approve of her hanging out with some kid that very clearly likes her?

  • 01.02.2013 6:48 PM PDT

I read that entire post thinking you were a guy, and got a bit confused for a bit... Then suddenly realized...

Wait a second, this is from the perspective of a girl!

Then suddenly it all made sense. Darn my automatic assumption that all floodians are guys until proven otherwise.

OT: Get your mind off of it. Time heals all wounds. Just sit in your chair in a comfortable position, breathe in while tensing every single muscle in your body, hold it a minute to make sure it's all tensed, then exhale and relax every single muscle. Even take a moment to make sure everything is relaxed. Repeat a couple of times, then take stock of anything you can/should do today, and get to it. Also, don't let yourself dwell on any memories. Now's the time to live in the moment.

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Posted by: HaVOk1228
you disagree and believe that a girl who just wants to be friends with a guy is being a jerk?

Wat.


Hes obviously been rejected a lot...

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