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Subject: Just ended my friendship with my bestfriend
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Posted by: x Foman123 x
OP, that text was completely inappropriate. If you want to stop being friends with the girl, just stop talking to her. Trying to make her feel guilty for keeping you in the friendzone and causing drama where there need not be any is completely juvenile behavior.

You're being creepy now, and trust me, that's exactly what all of this girl's friends are telling her. You -blam!- up the entire relationship by being friendzoned in the first place; don't worry about it, it happens to all of us. Just cut your losses and move on like a man. This breakup text crap is for middle school-aged children.


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  • 01.02.2013 6:52 PM PDT
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That doesn't mean she had to ignore him. She should have told him soon. I don't know about you, but I rather have any friend of mine saying that I make them uncomfortable rather then choosing to ignore me. I'll understand.
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Posted by: Decimator Omega
O rly? Did you not read the entire OP? What about the other friend?
Posted by: HaVOk1228

Posted by: Decimator Omega
This.
Posted by: Painis Cupcake
Carry on.if a friend is a jerk to you, then they aren't a real friend.


A friend denying your advances doesn't make them a jerk.

Also, her feeling uncomfortable and distancing herself from him after because she has a boyfriend doesn't make her a jerk either.


He probably hasnt tried getting in her pants... Idk if you guys watch too much anime, or have only seen romantic comedies to gauge how someone how someone should act, but shes allowed to have as many people as friends as she wants. That goes for anyone. If she doesnt feel comfortable around him, or he does something she doesnt like, its up to her discretion whether or not to keep the OP as a friend.

Clearly he creeped too hard.

  • 01.02.2013 6:52 PM PDT

It seems overdramatic
You're a great person but you're just in a confused area right now.Especially this. If someone treats you like garbage, they're not a good person.

Why did you send this through text? You should've talked to them, they'll just ignore this too.

[Edited on 01.02.2013 6:58 PM PST]

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You do know that the friendzone doesn't exist right?
Posted by: x Foman123 x
OP, that text was completely inappropriate. If you want to stop being friends with the girl, just stop talking to her. Trying to make her feel guilty for keeping you in the friendzone and causing drama where there need not be any is completely juvenile behavior.

You're being creepy now, and trust me, that's exactly what all of this girl's friends are telling her. You -blam!- up the entire relationship by being friendzoned in the first place; don't worry about it, it happens to all of us. Just cut your losses and move on like a man. This breakup text crap is for middle school-aged children.

  • 01.02.2013 6:54 PM PDT

:)

Posted by: steelboom490
It seems a little overdramatic


Well it is teenage drama...

[Edited on 01.02.2013 7:00 PM PST]

  • 01.02.2013 6:54 PM PDT

Posted by: C Dirty 4
Reach essentially has put the "I" in "Team".


Remember, the enemy's gate is down


Posted by: Decimator Omega
That doesn't mean she had to ignore him. She should have told him soon. I don't know about you, but I rather have any friend of mine saying that I make them uncomfortable rather then choosing to ignore me. I'll understand.
Posted by: meagsIZbeast

Posted by: Decimator Omega
O rly? Did you not read the entire OP? What about the other friend?
Posted by: HaVOk1228

Posted by: Decimator Omega
This.


A friend denying your advances doesn't make them a jerk.

Also, her feeling uncomfortable and distancing herself from him after because she has a boyfriend doesn't make her a jerk either.


He probably hasnt tried getting in her pants... Idk if you guys watch too much anime, or have only seen romantic comedies to gauge how someone how someone should act, but shes allowed to have as many people as friends as she wants. That goes for anyone. If she doesnt feel comfortable around him, or he does something she doesnt like, its up to her discretion whether or not to keep the OP as a friend.

Clearly he creeped too hard.


He told her and she turned him down.

I consider this a pretty clear message. As a friend, she probably also didn't want to be mean.....which is why you don't let yourself get friend zoned in the first place. Some people are too nice to just come out and be like "Leave me alone".

  • 01.02.2013 6:55 PM PDT
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Posted by: Decimator Omega



Why would she make an awkward situation more awkward, by initiating that kind of conversation.

If someone makes you feel uncomfortable would you go out of your way to be around them? Its more than obvious that the OP was in the wrong, it was silly and childish of him to send a message like that, as well as try and "confess" his feelings to her while she is already in a relationship.



[Edited on 01.02.2013 6:56 PM PST]

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This isn't about me liking her. It's about her treating me like -blam!- and leaving her and I might as well tell her how I feel. Thanks for all the criticism, real mature. I'm feddup about being treated like -blam!-

  • 01.02.2013 6:55 PM PDT

Posted by: C Dirty 4
Reach essentially has put the "I" in "Team".


Remember, the enemy's gate is down


Posted by: Decimator Omega
You do know that the friendzone doesn't exist right?
Posted by: x Foman123 x
OP, that text was completely inappropriate. If you want to stop being friends with the girl, just stop talking to her. Trying to make her feel guilty for keeping you in the friendzone and causing drama where there need not be any is completely juvenile behavior.

You're being creepy now, and trust me, that's exactly what all of this girl's friends are telling her. You -blam!- up the entire relationship by being friendzoned in the first place; don't worry about it, it happens to all of us. Just cut your losses and move on like a man. This breakup text crap is for middle school-aged children.




....yes, yes it does.

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I see.
Posted by: HaVOk1228

He told her and she turned him down.

I consider this a pretty clear message. As a friend, she probably also didn't want to be mean.....which is why you don't let yourself get friend zoned in the first place. Some people are too nice to just come out and be like "Leave me alone".


[Edited on 01.02.2013 6:58 PM PST]

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Prove it.
Posted by: HaVOk1228

Posted by: Decimator Omega
You do know that the friendzone doesn't exist right?
Posted by: x Foman123 x
OP, that text was completely inappropriate. If you want to stop being friends with the girl, just stop talking to her. Trying to make her feel guilty for keeping you in the friendzone and causing drama where there need not be any is completely juvenile behavior.

You're being creepy now, and trust me, that's exactly what all of this girl's friends are telling her. You -blam!- up the entire relationship by being friendzoned in the first place; don't worry about it, it happens to all of us. Just cut your losses and move on like a man. This breakup text crap is for middle school-aged children.




....yes, yes it does.

  • 01.02.2013 6:57 PM PDT

Telling someone how you honestly feel is never a bad thing.

If nothing else, perhaps you now have some closure and can move on.

Screw these other guys. You did good, kid.

  • 01.02.2013 6:57 PM PDT

Posted by: C Dirty 4
Reach essentially has put the "I" in "Team".


Remember, the enemy's gate is down


Posted by: Decieved Soul
This isn't about me liking her. It's about her treating me like -blam!- and leaving her and I might as well tell her how I feel. Thanks for all the criticism, real mature. I'm feddup about being treated like -blam!-


And now everyone who didn't just shower you with sympathy and tell you you were right is being a big old meanie?

People are telling you that you also made a mistake and should learn from it.

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Posted by: Decieved Soul
This isn't about me liking her. It's about her treating me like -blam!- and leaving her and I might as well tell her how I feel. Thanks for all the criticism, real mature. I'm feddup about being treated like -blam!-


Dude, STOP CRYING ABOUT IT.

so what, some girl you liked doesnt like you back, who actually cares? Get over it and go meet someone new, its not like the two of you were every a thing, so I dont understand why you are so caught up in this.

Seriously, move on.

[Edited on 01.02.2013 6:58 PM PST]

  • 01.02.2013 6:58 PM PDT

:)

Posted by: HaVOk1228

Posted by: Decimator Omega
You do know that the friendzone doesn't exist right?
Posted by: x Foman123 x
OP, that text was completely inappropriate. If you want to stop being friends with the girl, just stop talking to her. Trying to make her feel guilty for keeping you in the friendzone and causing drama where there need not be any is completely juvenile behavior.

You're being creepy now, and trust me, that's exactly what all of this girl's friends are telling her. You -blam!- up the entire relationship by being friendzoned in the first place; don't worry about it, it happens to all of us. Just cut your losses and move on like a man. This breakup text crap is for middle school-aged children.




....yes, yes it does.


I agree. Sometimes a woman can even find you attractive but still friend zone you,

Most likely because she wants nothing to change between you two. Relationships complicate things if they go south.

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Common -blam!- sense?
Posted by: meagsIZbeast

Posted by: Decimator Omega



Why would she make an awkward situation more awkward, by initiating that kind of conversation.

If someone makes you feel uncomfortable would you go out of your way to be around them? Its more than obvious that the OP was in the wrong, it was silly and childish of him to send a message like that, as well as try and "confess" his feelings to her while she is already in a relationship.

  • 01.02.2013 7:00 PM PDT

*scratches nuts*

Posted by: Decimator Omega
Prove it.
If you ever tried talking to a girl you'd probably get put in the friendzone right away. But instead your social awkwardness causes you to shut yourself in on the internet and pretend to know all about relationships while never experiencing them for yourself because you might get your feelings hurt

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So do all who live to see such times, but that is not for them to decide. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given to us.

-Gandalf

To anyone that says the -blam!- friend zone exists, you're all wrong in so many freaking ways.

  • 01.02.2013 7:01 PM PDT


Posted by: Decimator Omega
To anyone that says the -blam!- friend zone exists, you're all wrong in so many freaking ways.


Prove it

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So do all who live to see such times, but that is not for them to decide. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given to us.

-Gandalf

Okay, this is the first time on THIS website that someone actually said this to me. No one not even in real life has ever said this. The amount of wrong is just out of control. You think you being mythic means that you're right? Talking down to people? You don't know jack about me and how I live my life. So -blam!- off.
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Posted by: Decimator Omega
Prove it.
If you ever tried talking to a girl you'd probably get put in the friendzone right away. But instead your social awkwardness causes you to shut yourself in on the internet and pretend to know all about relationships while never experiencing them for yourself because you might get your feelings hurt

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Posted by: Decimator Omega
To anyone that says the -blam!- friend zone exists, you're all wrong in so many freaking ways.


Do you know what it is? Its not a literal place.

Heres how it works, if someone has feelings for someone else, that are not reciprocated, and that person makes his/her feelings known, the other one generally says id rather be friends, or something along those lines.

That is known as the friend zone.

  • 01.02.2013 7:04 PM PDT
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So do all who live to see such times, but that is not for them to decide. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given to us.

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What the -blam!- are you doing here?
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Posted by: Decimator Omega
To anyone that says the -blam!- friend zone exists, you're all wrong in so many freaking ways.


Prove it

  • 01.02.2013 7:04 PM PDT

*scratches nuts*


Posted by: Decimator Omega
Okay, this is the first time on THIS website that someone actually said this to me. No one not even in real life has ever said this. The amount of wrong is just out of control. You think you being mythic means that you're right? Talking down to people? You don't know jack about me and how I live my life. So -blam!- off.
Posted by: General Noobus
Posted by: Decimator Omega
Prove it.
If you ever tried talking to a girl you'd probably get put in the friendzone right away. But instead your social awkwardness causes you to shut yourself in on the internet and pretend to know all about relationships while never experiencing them for yourself because you might get your feelings hurt
Gauging your response I'm going to assume I got it at least partially right.

  • 01.02.2013 7:05 PM PDT


Posted by: Decimator Omega
You think you being mythic means that you're right?


Yes

  • 01.02.2013 7:05 PM PDT

:)

Posted by: Decimator Omega
Okay, this is the first time on THIS website that someone actually said this to me. No one not even in real life has ever said this. The amount of wrong is just out of control. You think you being mythic means that you're right? Talking down to people? You don't know jack about me and how I live my life. So -blam!- off.
Posted by: General Noobus
Posted by: Decimator Omega
Prove it.
If you ever tried talking to a girl you'd probably get put in the friendzone right away. But instead your social awkwardness causes you to shut yourself in on the internet and pretend to know all about relationships while never experiencing them for yourself because you might get your feelings hurt


This kind of discussion is why I don't come on this forum much anymore.

  • 01.02.2013 7:05 PM PDT