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And you want to know why? Because there's a lot more to school than getting good grades, but there's also a lot more to life than fun. You need a balance, and you're not going to get that unless you feel good. You can't be successful if you aren't content.
In order to get good grades, you need to have the motivation to do what needs to get done. In order to maintain motivation, you need either motives are comfort. You're not going to get that comfort unless you're living happily. For the foreveraloners and nerds out there, you can continue to tell yourself otherwise, but you're going to eventually run out of your motivation. When you spend every night playing Xbox after you finish your homework, you're eventually going to question the rinsing and repeating.
However, the opposite is true, too: You cannot be social and happy if you do not have the means to do so. In high school, you need nothing. But after high school, if your foresight wasn't long enough, you drop into a pit of sorrow and regret, living a boring and tedious existence selling t-shirts at Walmart.
You can be a nerd and still have friends, but are going to be happy? No. You need to meet someone that makes you feel good for who you are. You need to do what all humans are meant to do.
Date. Find someone you love. And even if you don't find that person in high school (which you most likely won't), you'll still find out what you want.
Dating is crucial in high school for both comfort, future knowledge, and... life.