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Posted by: ImOnTheDole

Posted by: Murcielago00

Posted by: ImOnTheDole

>Most high school relationships don't last
>Most people are idiots in high school
>I hadn't even figured out what career I wanted at that time


It's cute how you thought not knowing what career you want somehow plays into dating. In high school.

Because it doesn't. Your other two points though, I agree with.
It was a very minor point, but it was still a contributing factor.
I think it's a ridiculous point and shouldn't even be considered.

Since it was high school. Not many people know what they want to do as careers in high school, and of those that do, how many actually end up in that chosen career path?

Not knowing what career you want, should NOT be a deciding factor in whether one chooses to date or not in high school.

  • 01.04.2013 2:53 PM PDT
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Posted by: theHurtfulTurkey

Posted by: StorySan
I have dated. I understand how pointless it is, I have never wanted sex in my relationships, and they still all ended badly.

and lol you insult me?


Yes, I insult you, because you've insulted my girlfriend and myself and have shown that you're too immature and arrogant to understand what you're talking about. Clearly you're wrong, but you insist that because you haven't had a successful relationship in high school, that nobody can. Grow up.


nah, I'm insisting that it's a waste of time for everybody, because 13-25 are the years where you cant think straight and you are basically retarded.

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Posted by: Xanarxses
Ok that's it. You're a troll.
lol yeah, just because I have a different opinion than you, I'm a troll. I'm just saying the kind of girl that would sleep with you in highschool is the kind of girl you shouldn't be dating.

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Posted by: StorySan

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Posted by: GoddessOfCreed

So you would rather grow in maturity at the expense of your purity, innocence, and heart? I dont understand.

Um I don't quite know what you're trying to get at. My reply in a nutshell is that different people mature differently. I am plenty kind and passionate. I have a lot of love to give to others and I love to help people. I grew up pretty much alone so right now is the best time of my life so far. I have great friends and an amazing partner.

I would say I have all of what you said besides "innocence" in the term of virginity.


I mean before you dated your current partner, you lost your purity, innocence and heart(heartbreak). Why would you do that to yourself? Why not wait until you are older and smarter and wiser to date? less heartbreak that way

anyways, it's good to have people around you that love you. that definitely helps in your maturity

I lost my virginity to my current partner.* And like I said, it helps to learn from your mistakes and to just grow as a person.

*I waited for the right person to come along to have sex

[Edited on 01.04.2013 2:56 PM PST]

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Posted by: Murcielago00

Posted by: ImOnTheDole

Posted by: Murcielago00

Posted by: ImOnTheDole

>Most high school relationships don't last
>Most people are idiots in high school
>I hadn't even figured out what career I wanted at that time


It's cute how you thought not knowing what career you want somehow plays into dating. In high school.

Because it doesn't. Your other two points though, I agree with.
It was a very minor point, but it was still a contributing factor.
I think it's a ridiculous point and shouldn't even be considered.

Since it was high school. Not many people know what they want to do as careers in high school, and of those that do, how many actually end up in that chosen career path?

Not knowing what career you want, should NOT be a deciding factor in whether one chooses to date or not in high school.


exactly, you should wait until you have a job in your chosen career path to even start dating!

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Posted by: StorySan
nah, I'm insisting that it's a waste of time for everybody, because 13-25 are the years where you cant think straight and you are basically retarded.


I think you're the only one in this thread suffering from that condition.

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Posted by: Godless Heathen
Obvious derp is obvious.
Feel free to demonstrate, or are you just going to be an ass?

  • 01.04.2013 2:54 PM PDT

My parents have been together since they were fourteen.

Teenage relationships don't always have to end in disaster.

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Posted by: StorySan

Posted by: Murcielago00

Posted by: ImOnTheDole

Posted by: Murcielago00

Posted by: ImOnTheDole

>Most high school relationships don't last
>Most people are idiots in high school
>I hadn't even figured out what career I wanted at that time


It's cute how you thought not knowing what career you want somehow plays into dating. In high school.

Because it doesn't. Your other two points though, I agree with.
It was a very minor point, but it was still a contributing factor.
I think it's a ridiculous point and shouldn't even be considered.

Since it was high school. Not many people know what they want to do as careers in high school, and of those that do, how many actually end up in that chosen career path?

Not knowing what career you want, should NOT be a deciding factor in whether one chooses to date or not in high school.


exactly, you should wait until you have a job in your chosen career path to even start dating!


Why?

  • 01.04.2013 2:54 PM PDT

Posted by: Kneecap
I keep on getting in conversations with a person who calls me John.


Posted by: StorySan

Posted by: theHurtfulTurkey

Posted by: StorySan
I have dated. I understand how pointless it is, I have never wanted sex in my relationships, and they still all ended badly.

and lol you insult me?


Yes, I insult you, because you've insulted my girlfriend and myself and have shown that you're too immature and arrogant to understand what you're talking about. Clearly you're wrong, but you insist that because you haven't had a successful relationship in high school, that nobody can. Grow up.


nah, I'm insisting that it's a waste of time for everybody, because 13-25 are the years where you cant think straight and you are basically retarded.
Am I being trolled.

  • 01.04.2013 2:55 PM PDT
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Posted by: GoddessOfCreed

Posted by: StorySan

Posted by: GoddessOfCreed

Posted by: StorySan
Posted by: GoddessOfCreed

So you would rather grow in maturity at the expense of your purity, innocence, and heart? I dont understand.

Um I don't quite know what you're trying to get at. My reply in a nutshell is that different people mature differently. I am plenty kind and passionate. I have a lot of love to give to others and I love to help people. I grew up pretty much alone so right now is the best time of my life so far. I have great friends and an amazing partner.

I would say I have all of what you said besides "innocence" in the term of virginity.


I mean before you dated your current partner, you lost your purity, innocence and heart(heartbreak). Why would you do that to yourself? Why not wait until you are older and smarter and wiser to date? less heartbreak that way

anyways, it's good to have people around you that love you. that definitely helps in your maturity

I lost my virginity to my current partner. And like I said, it helps to learn from your mistakes and to just grow as a person.


why not learn from the people older than you, so you dont have to learn from your own mistakes, you hurt fewer people that way.

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Posted by: StorySan

Posted by: Murcielago00

Posted by: ImOnTheDole
>Most high school relationships don't last
>Most people are idiots in high school
>I hadn't even figured out what career I wanted at that time


It's cute how you thought not knowing what career you want somehow plays into dating. In high school.

Because it doesn't. Your other two points though, I agree with.


it does actually, wouldnt you want to know that you can support the person you are dating and buy them nice things?
It's high school. The person that should be supporting your date are their parents.

You don't need a career to buy someone gifts. It's called a job. Some high schooler's have them for a variety of reasons: extra money, saving up for something, helping out a parent who may own the business, work experience, etc...

And if you are dating someone who isn't content unless you buy them nice things, you are dating the wrong person.

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Posted by: toystory2wasok

Am I being trolled.


only you.

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For experience with a girlfriend...they are pretty confusing and exhausting.

There is so much to a relationship that is untold that a few mistakes on these untold mysteries can cause a relationship to turn bad.

Experience in dating just helps you understand your roles and what you really want in a girl.

  • 01.04.2013 2:56 PM PDT

If you can read this, that means I'm not a Shaolin monk...

yet.

just like a real genuine thing between two people innit

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Posted by: Murcielago00

Posted by: StorySan

Posted by: Murcielago00

Posted by: ImOnTheDole
>Most high school relationships don't last
>Most people are idiots in high school
>I hadn't even figured out what career I wanted at that time


It's cute how you thought not knowing what career you want somehow plays into dating. In high school.

Because it doesn't. Your other two points though, I agree with.


it does actually, wouldnt you want to know that you can support the person you are dating and buy them nice things?
It's high school. The person that should be supporting your date are their parents.

You don't need a career to buy someone gifts. It's called a job. Some high schooler's have them for a variety of reasons: extra money, saving up for something, helping out a parent who may own the business, work experience, etc...

And if you are dating someone who isn't content unless you buy them nice things, you are dating the wrong person.


which is why everything I said would make sense if you were older than 18-25.

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Posted by: Riverside23

Posted by: StorySan

Posted by: Murcielago00
I think it's a ridiculous point and shouldn't even be considered.

Since it was high school. Not many people know what they want to do as careers in high school, and of those that do, how many actually end up in that chosen career path?

Not knowing what career you want, should NOT be a deciding factor in whether one chooses to date or not in high school.


exactly, you should wait until you have a job in your chosen career path to even start dating!


Why?

  • 01.04.2013 2:56 PM PDT

Posted by: Kneecap
I keep on getting in conversations with a person who calls me John.


Posted by: StorySan

Posted by: toystory2wasok

Am I being trolled.


only you.

Also why aren't you replying to posts like Scoopicus', "My parents have been together since they were fourteen.

Teenage relationships don't always have to end in disaster."

You don't have a good enough response for them or something?

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Posted by: StorySan

which is why everything I said would make sense if you were older than 18-25.
I am older than that, which is exactly why everything you are saying makes NO sense.

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Posted by: Murcielago00

Posted by: Riverside23

Posted by: StorySan

Posted by: Murcielago00
I think it's a ridiculous point and shouldn't even be considered.

Since it was high school. Not many people know what they want to do as careers in high school, and of those that do, how many actually end up in that chosen career path?

Not knowing what career you want, should NOT be a deciding factor in whether one chooses to date or not in high school.


exactly, you should wait until you have a job in your chosen career path to even start dating!


Why?


because then you can show that girl that you can take care of her and provide her the security she needs.

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Posted by: toystory2wasok

Posted by: StorySan

Posted by: toystory2wasok

Am I being trolled.


only you.

Also why aren't you replying to posts like Scoopicus', "My parents have been together since they were fourteen.

Teenage relationships don't always have to end in disaster."

You don't have a good enough response for them or something?


1. cant reply to everybody
2. things were different back then.
3. really?

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Posted by: StorySan

Posted by: Murcielago00

Posted by: Riverside23

Posted by: StorySan

Posted by: Murcielago00
I think it's a ridiculous point and shouldn't even be considered.

Since it was high school. Not many people know what they want to do as careers in high school, and of those that do, how many actually end up in that chosen career path?

Not knowing what career you want, should NOT be a deciding factor in whether one chooses to date or not in high school.


exactly, you should wait until you have a job in your chosen career path to even start dating!


Why?


because then you can show that girl that you can take care of her and provide her the security she needs.
If you do that in high school , you are going about it too strongly and will most likely scare the other person off.

You're dating wrong if that is your primary concern; to show the girl from the get-go that you are able to provide for her.

Comes off way too strong.

[Edited on 01.04.2013 3:00 PM PST]

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Posted by: Murcielago00

Posted by: StorySan

Posted by: Murcielago00

Posted by: Riverside23

Posted by: StorySan


exactly, you should wait until you have a job in your chosen career path to even start dating!


Why?


because then you can show that girl that you can take care of her and provide her the security she needs.
If you do that in high school , you are going about it too strongly and will most likely scare the other person off.

which is why you should wait until college. You really dont get it do you?

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I'm a dude playing a dude desguised as another dude. I hate heritics, non-logical thoughts and people who are better than I am. People tell me that they like a lot of games, but I hate them all. Whenever I play a video game, I always go crawling back to Halo 3. Never go full retard!

Not sure really. I don't do much dating myself at all just because I'm not a fan. There are some people who aren't into the love making and not into life partner choosing that like relationships just for the sake of having a relationship

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Posted by: Murcielago00

Posted by: StorySan

which is why everything I said would make sense if you were older than 18-25.
I am older than that, which is exactly why everything you are saying makes NO sense.


what's your story then?

  • 01.04.2013 3:00 PM PDT