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Subject: When's it acceptable to go after a girl?

AFTER she has broken up with a guy. I mean I basically consoled this girl through her whole break up, now we talk on the phone for hours and we even made a list of people we'd bang together. So long story short, when can I ask her out? Should I wait a month? 2 months? When her ex (who's a year older) graduates in 6 months?

But yeah, sex jokes are much appreciated to relieve some bull-blam!- anxiety I have.

  • 01.05.2013 10:05 PM PDT
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I waited a month.

Do not wait a month.

  • 01.05.2013 10:06 PM PDT

"There's a very fine line between not listening, and not caring. I'd like to think that I walk that line every day."

Whenever you're both ready.

  • 01.05.2013 10:06 PM PDT

Posted by: Timtaztix
yeah this reminds me of the time i got sent to jail for stealing crocs from target becozs i wanted all of the colors because i only got the green wons for my birthday and i wanted more ;)

NAH TOO BAD BRO YOU'RE IN THE FRIENDZONE

  • 01.05.2013 10:06 PM PDT

Ask her to bang you. Proceed as she answers.

  • 01.05.2013 10:07 PM PDT
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lol i waited a -blam!- year

  • 01.05.2013 10:07 PM PDT

Please stop complaining about the 'death of a loved one' it's my job. They probably deserved it anyways. Here's a warning, if you keep making pentagrams out of the neighbors livestock I will personally come to your house and kill everyone you love. Now leave me alone, I got to get back to work.
~M.D~

whenever she's over it.

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Posted by: mister death
whenever she's over it.


She's really open with me, but there's no tellin with women, come on now.

  • 01.05.2013 10:14 PM PDT
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do you have experience?

  • 01.05.2013 10:15 PM PDT

Play. Forge. Film.


Posted by: XxMaximumPainxX

Posted by: mister death
whenever she's over it.


She's really open with me, but there's no tellin with women, come on now.


If she's open then just flat out ask her if she thinks that she is over him or not.

  • 01.05.2013 10:15 PM PDT

I have no experience. Stick with me here: I'm 17 and neve rbeen in a relationship or been kissed. I've just gotten friendzoned a lot because I never asked anyone out and put myself out there.

  • 01.05.2013 10:17 PM PDT

Let's say two weeks.

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Posted by: XxMaximumPainxX
I have no experience. Stick with me here: I'm 17 and neve rbeen in a relationship or been kissed. I've just gotten friendzoned a lot because I never asked anyone out and put myself out there.

you should wait then and learn some of that stuff from her

  • 01.05.2013 10:18 PM PDT

wait did you guys talk about who you two would have threesomes with? or who she would have sex with? there's a huge difference.

  • 01.05.2013 10:20 PM PDT
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13.72 billion years in the making.

On December 1st, 2012, I met Neil deGrasse Tyson. I shook the man's hand, and even made him laugh. Not much else to do with my life now.

Posted by: mister death
whenever she's over it.

  • 01.05.2013 10:20 PM PDT


Posted by: Slap My Nuts

Posted by: XxMaximumPainxX
I have no experience. Stick with me here: I'm 17 and neve rbeen in a relationship or been kissed. I've just gotten friendzoned a lot because I never asked anyone out and put myself out there.

you should wait then and learn some of that stuff from her


I've known her for about 2 years now, but recently since her break up we've grown super close. I'm just worried she sees me as a rebound/guy who she talks to, but has no interest in.

  • 01.05.2013 10:21 PM PDT

~Ninja

I don't know. My current girlfriend and I knew each other from the beginning of the semester and we just started officially going out on Jan. 2nd.

So whenever it feels right just go for it.

  • 01.05.2013 10:22 PM PDT
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I'd say abort.

  • 01.05.2013 10:23 PM PDT

Still better than you.

.....most of you, at least.

Depends. Is her ex a friend of yours? If so, then 3-months minimum. If not, then whenever you want.

Though, I think you're already on the wrong track tbh.

  • 01.05.2013 10:25 PM PDT

Posted by: Great_Pretender
Case and point: don't worry about it. Girls start getting boobies pretty soon, and then you'll have plenty of other things to think about. Being an Inheritor is not a life goal.
-TGP-

Ask her now. If you wait, then you'll eventually lose the intimacy you've gained from consoling her. Right now you're just the shoulder to cry on and that leads to a complete friend zoning where she just turns to you with her problems as her tissue. Take it a step further and tell her that you want to see her happy and offer to take her out on a classy date.

  • 01.05.2013 10:26 PM PDT


Posted by: Xplode441
Ask her now. If you wait, then you'll eventually lose the intimacy you've gained from consoling her. Right now you're just the shoulder to cry on and that leads to a complete friend zoning where she just turns to you with her problems as her tissue. Take it a step further and tell her that you want to see her happy and offer to take her out on a classy date.


Wow, that's great advice. Thanks a ton. And her ex was a guy I met AFTER she started dating him and we've talked a few times, and we're acquaintences, but not friends. I've never gone out of my way to talk to him and I've never hung out with him.

  • 01.05.2013 10:28 PM PDT

Please stop complaining about the 'death of a loved one' it's my job. They probably deserved it anyways. Here's a warning, if you keep making pentagrams out of the neighbors livestock I will personally come to your house and kill everyone you love. Now leave me alone, I got to get back to work.
~M.D~


Posted by: XxMaximumPainxX

Posted by: mister death
whenever she's over it.


She's really open with me, but there's no tellin with women, come on now.

well if she's ready, and she likes you, she'll make a move. Then that's when you know.

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Posted by: Slap My Nuts
do you have experience?

It looks like you do!

  • 01.05.2013 10:29 PM PDT
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So do all who live to see such times, but that is not for them to decide. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given to us.

-Gandalf

Posted by: BROWN HAWK
Whenever you're both ready.

  • 01.05.2013 10:31 PM PDT

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Posted by: XxMaximumPainxX
AFTER she has broken up with a guy. I mean I basically consoled this girl through her whole break up, now we talk on the phone for hours

She's not romantically interested OP.

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