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Subject: Help With Weird Girl!

Hey Flood! I needed your opinion on what this girl is trying to do, because I'm just about done with this b.s.

Anyway, I've known her for over 3 years, only this summer do we become close. She comes into our social circle, I start to like her. I start to like her because she's always giving me more attention than the other guys in our social circle, complementing me, always asks me for help/advice, says my name in an animated voice (I also seem to brighten her day). She wont stop calling me "awesome" and "cool" even when it's in awkward as fuark situations.

I Tell her I like her via electronics because my friend screwed my plan up big time (long story). Not sure if she feels the same (my beta-self kind of beat around the bush, not sure if she got the message). She responded with an "aww </3".

I'm pretty sure I'm totally friend-zoned. An unstable month passes, and I forget about her. I still hang out with her regularly since she's a close friend of mine, but realize that she's pretty dumb/has some deep issues. I had no idea what I saw in her.

Now, 2 months after the "incident" she's calling me "awesome" and "cool" again. What the HELL, Flood? I'm the only person I've seen her do this to, and if she compliments people like this, it's not even close to how many times she does it to me. I wouldn't be surprised if she started sitting on my lap again and being touchy touchy all the time. Is she doing what I think she's doing, because honestly, she's seems like she wants it, but I don't want to be near her that way again.

I'm not asking what I should do, but what do you think she's doing? It's like she forgot about the whole ordeal, as if nothing happened. I'm just going to carry on and not let it bother me, what does the Flood think?

  • 01.05.2013 11:48 PM PDT
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Ask Sgt. Johnson, he knows what the ladies like.

  • 01.05.2013 11:49 PM PDT

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  • 01.05.2013 11:50 PM PDT

Sometimes, I dream about cheese.

Stop thinking about it and never acknowledge anything.

  • 01.05.2013 11:51 PM PDT

The human element always mucks things up.

Sew your butts together so you can poop in her butt while she poops in your butt.

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  • 01.05.2013 11:52 PM PDT

Okay, I have an ex girlfriend, that broke up with me a couple months ago, but is now attempting to get back with me.

The way she acts is almost the same.

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Dolphins, man. Dolphins. They are gonna take over the world, and kill us all, man! THEY'LL KILL US ALL! Oh no, they will start with Gondile. Haha, hell if they are gettin' me! No way man, I'll kill 'em. I'll kill them all!!!

Really, the only option is to leave. You tried explaining your feelings but it didn't work. There are two ways to end a friend zone: Expose feelings or walk out. Door number 1 has already been opened... Time to open door number 2.

  • 01.05.2013 11:57 PM PDT


Posted by: Vanerrad
Okay, I have an ex girlfriend, that broke up with me a couple months ago, but is now attempting to get back with me.

The way she acts is almost the same.


Really? I don't want to even think that she likes me that way, because honestly, I don't think I want to go out with her anymore, only have some fun. Then again, I don't really want to work towards it unless I know she wants to.

  • 01.05.2013 11:57 PM PDT

Posted by: Great_Pretender
Case and point: don't worry about it. Girls start getting boobies pretty soon, and then you'll have plenty of other things to think about. Being an Inheritor is not a life goal.
-TGP-

Sounds to me like she likes you, but that she has unreasonable expectations for you. I recommend just getting it out in the open and straight up asking if your friendship is going to lead to something.

  • 01.05.2013 11:59 PM PDT


Posted by: Gondile
Really, the only option is to leave. You tried explaining your feelings but it didn't work. There are two ways to end a friend zone: Expose feelings or walk out. Door number 1 has already been opened... Time to open door number 2.


Yeah, a month ago I would not accept this, but now, meh. As I said before, I'm not going to open up to this girl that way again, because she isn't worth it.

But what the hell is she trying to do? Why is she going back to her old, what I'd call flirty, self? Usually when it doesn't work out they never talk to you again.

  • 01.05.2013 11:59 PM PDT

Posted by: Great_Pretender
Case and point: don't worry about it. Girls start getting boobies pretty soon, and then you'll have plenty of other things to think about. Being an Inheritor is not a life goal.
-TGP-

Posted by: Dozen Plague
But what the hell is she trying to do? Why is she going back to her old, what I'd call flirty, self? Usually when it doesn't work out they never talk to you again.
We can only guess and come up with silly answers. The best option is to just put it out there and ask her what her motives are. Bring it up in an annoyed tone like, "What is this -blam!-?"

  • 01.06.2013 12:05 AM PDT

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Damn Flood, u scary!

And OP, its obvious you are simply cool and awesome. Consider yourself lucky. Whenever I walk into civilization, people pull out pitchforks and torches.

  • 01.06.2013 12:08 AM PDT


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Posted by: Dozen Plague
But what the hell is she trying to do? Why is she going back to her old, what I'd call flirty, self? Usually when it doesn't work out they never talk to you again.
We can only guess and come up with silly answers. The best option is to just put it out there and ask her what her motives are. Bring it up in an annoyed tone like, "What is this -blam!-?"


That's possible, the only thing is that she's always acted that way toward me, even when I barely talked to her. Keep in mind that 3 years ago I was a fatty.

My friends tell me that she's just like that for attention, but I'm way more mature than my group of friends (I'm still a good friend) and she says she likes guys that are mature. Also, her best friend also seems more comfortable being around me, but that's probably just because I've known her for 11 years.

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Stick it in her wort hole.

  • 01.06.2013 12:08 AM PDT


Posted by: Dark Hunter 2100
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Damn Flood, u scary!

And OP, its obvious you are simply cool and awesome. Consider yourself lucky. Whenever I walk into civilization, people pull out pitchforks and torches.


Thanks man. Don't get me wrong, I enjoy the compliments, but sometimes it's just weird, and I was obsessing over this girl 2 months ago.

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Dolphins, man. Dolphins. They are gonna take over the world, and kill us all, man! THEY'LL KILL US ALL! Oh no, they will start with Gondile. Haha, hell if they are gettin' me! No way man, I'll kill 'em. I'll kill them all!!!


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Posted by: Gondile
Really, the only option is to leave. You tried explaining your feelings but it didn't work. There are two ways to end a friend zone: Expose feelings or walk out. Door number 1 has already been opened... Time to open door number 2.


Yeah, a month ago I would not accept this, but now, meh. As I said before, I'm not going to open up to this girl that way again, because she isn't worth it.

But what the hell is she trying to do? Why is she going back to her old, what I'd call flirty, self? Usually when it doesn't work out they never talk to you again.
I know this type. Her flirtiness is intertwined with her personality. She simply won't let go of that, and you're a target. Leave her alone, and force her out of your life, before you put yourself into a depression, and by god you don't want to go through that.

  • 01.06.2013 12:09 AM PDT
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So do all who live to see such times, but that is not for them to decide. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given to us.

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She may have some mental issues. I'm not sure.

  • 01.06.2013 12:12 AM PDT
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Its called talking. Tell her.

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  • 01.06.2013 12:15 AM PDT


Posted by: Gondile

Posted by: Dozen Plague

Posted by: Gondile
Really, the only option is to leave. You tried explaining your feelings but it didn't work. There are two ways to end a friend zone: Expose feelings or walk out. Door number 1 has already been opened... Time to open door number 2.


Yeah, a month ago I would not accept this, but now, meh. As I said before, I'm not going to open up to this girl that way again, because she isn't worth it.

But what the hell is she trying to do? Why is she going back to her old, what I'd call flirty, self? Usually when it doesn't work out they never talk to you again.
I know this type. Her flirtiness is intertwined with her personality. She simply won't let go of that, and you're a target. Leave her alone, and force her out of your life, before you put yourself into a depression, and by god you don't want to go through that.


I'm not sure if you're being a strong realist or a pessimist. I've thought about this, because a friend of mine also said her personality is like that.

  • 01.06.2013 12:15 AM PDT


Posted by: chronicaddict420
Its called talking. Tell her.


Maybe, but then she wouldn't do this kind of stuff to me. As pathetic as this sounds, I admit that I like the attention. If I tell her and it has nothing to do with it, then she'll stop.



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  • 01.06.2013 12:16 AM PDT
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Dolphins, man. Dolphins. They are gonna take over the world, and kill us all, man! THEY'LL KILL US ALL! Oh no, they will start with Gondile. Haha, hell if they are gettin' me! No way man, I'll kill 'em. I'll kill them all!!!


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Posted by: Dozen Plague

Posted by: Gondile
Really, the only option is to leave. You tried explaining your feelings but it didn't work. There are two ways to end a friend zone: Expose feelings or walk out. Door number 1 has already been opened... Time to open door number 2.


Yeah, a month ago I would not accept this, but now, meh. As I said before, I'm not going to open up to this girl that way again, because she isn't worth it.

But what the hell is she trying to do? Why is she going back to her old, what I'd call flirty, self? Usually when it doesn't work out they never talk to you again.
I know this type. Her flirtiness is intertwined with her personality. She simply won't let go of that, and you're a target. Leave her alone, and force her out of your life, before you put yourself into a depression, and by god you don't want to go through that.


I'm not sure if you're being a strong realist or a pessimist. I've thought about this, because a friend of mine also said her personality is like that.
I think like this because I went through this. This exact thing happened to me. One of the catalysts in making me go into depression... Just.. just leave this friendship, it will do you more harm than help.

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