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Subject: A 22 year old is messing with me and my girlfriend...

I'm 17 and my girlfriend is 16. She's turning 17 this year and we're both Juniors.

There's this 21 (22 in a month) year old guy that works with her at Jewel (a Supermarket chain that sells groceries). He has nothing better to do than try to tell my girlfriend that I'm a horrible person and I just want to date her for the sole purpose of hooking up. He drove by twice while me and my girlfriend were in her car for a while one night.

While working they're not allowed to have their phones on them. If I text her and she happens to be working, (he has a higher up position at the work so he gets to chill a lot of the time by where they must leave their phones), he'll respond to me using her phone and start telling me how bad of a person I am and how I'm using her all that jazz.

What can I do to get this guy to leave me and my girlfriend alone?

What 22 year old has nothing better to do with his life than mess with some teenagers' relationship?

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Call the cops. That'll set him straight.

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Fight to the death in a battle arena.

Only option.

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Disregard Females, acquire currency.

Kick his ass.

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Man up and whoop his arse.

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Tell him to piss off and show your girlfriend.

  • 01.06.2013 7:48 PM PDT


Posted by: Dont pass gass
Kick his ass.


I could try but he did gymnastics all throughout high school and still coaches it. I'm just a kicker for football.

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Posted by: Co M4N
Fight to the death in a battle arena.

Only option.

This. There is no other way.

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That's harassment, plain and simple.

  • 01.06.2013 7:49 PM PDT


Posted by: Neanderthal 487

Posted by: Co M4N
Fight to the death in a battle arena.

Only option.

This. There is no other way.


Orrrrr instigate a fight and get him to attack me then press charges and get him thrown in jail for harassment, aggravated assault, etc.

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Please stop complaining about the 'death of a loved one' it's my job. They probably deserved it anyways. Here's a warning, if you keep making pentagrams out of the neighbors livestock I will personally come to your house and kill everyone you love. Now leave me alone, I got to get back to work.
~M.D~

Wow, why does he care? He has feelings for her, obviously.

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Why So Serious?

"I'm gonna go America all over everybody's asses!"
-Charlie, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia

Dude sounds like an obnoxious busybody prick. Tell him to bugger off.

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Does your girlfriend know? Get her to tell her boss.

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:)

Stop being paranoid.

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Get yourself and/or your girlfriend to call the police and complain about harassment.

  • 01.06.2013 7:50 PM PDT

Rock bottom is no place to set up camp. Especially in the dark.

Report him to his work for touching your girlfriend's personal property and using her phone to send bad messages.

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Posted by: jross1993
Stop being paranoid.


How am I being paranoid? I know my girlfriend's not going to cheat on me with him or anything like that but he constantly texts if he knows we're together.

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Connor Morris

Report him to the police for harrassment. Also can he get in trouble for using her phone behind her back?

  • 01.06.2013 7:50 PM PDT

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Posted by: FlapjacksNsyrup

Posted by: Dont pass gass
Kick his ass.


I could try but he did gymnastics all throughout high school and still coaches it. I'm just a kicker for football.
Then use that practice and kick him where it hurts.

It's not a pansy move, it's called making use of an advantage.

  • 01.06.2013 7:51 PM PDT

I like how one sided this story is

OT: Obviously OP must've done something and I delt with his kind before but knew better than to dog him. I just knew that if someone treats others like dirt: they get what they want. So OP, why the -blam!- haven't you done something yet?

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Posted by: WyIdfyre
Get yourself and/or your girlfriend to call the police and complain about harassment.


She does one of those, "it's fine, don't worry about it." etc. But it pisses me off, so I'm gonna worry about it and do something.

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Does your girlfriend know about this???

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Maybe show your girlfriend the texts he sent you?

I'm sure that she'll recognize that she didn't send them.

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>Buy gun
>Put gun in an obvious spot
>???
>I don't think he'll be -blam!- with you anymore

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Posted by: FlapjacksNsyrup

Posted by: WyIdfyre
Get yourself and/or your girlfriend to call the police and complain about harassment.


She does one of those, "it's fine, don't worry about it." etc. But it pisses me off, so I'm gonna worry about it and do something.
Then tell her that it's bothering you and if she cares about you then she should take it seriously.

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