There is something that I've been contemplating about lately. The thoughts of dying alone, love, marriage, etc. There are some couples I've met, we all have, that do not belong together. The constant arguing, disagreements, list goes on. Yet, the couple is still whole.
Of course I have been curious to ask "Why" they're still together, never do. So one day I began to think. I've seen many couples in this dilemma. Then the realization hit me, they're afraid to die alone. These are just my thoughts and opinions on this predicament. I figured I'd like to discuss it with some.
The fear of dying alone is common. I believe it's a fear that everyone in the world has. It's a mutual feeling. We have young people, such as the ones on BNet, that have nothing close to a partner. Sorry for being blunt, just being honest. But everyone's time will come. I promise.
Let's set an example here. You have a guy that's around the age of 25. He's had a few girlfriends. Nothing ever really got serious. None of the relationships lasted over a year. What ended those relationships was self-loathing, wasn't a confident guy at all, never really cared for her feelings, etc.
He's had enough with being alone for so long. He lowers his standards. Any girl will do basically. As long has he is attracted to her a little bit. He'll settle for anyone as long as he has someone. He'll have the female compassion and someone to hold at night.
Which the fear of dying alone comes into play and my question to you all. Do you think a lot of people in this world will take anyone they can just so they can dodge the loneliness? Kind of a silly question, but if you get the big picture here, it makes a lot of sense for a lot of couples in the world.