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Subject: Would I be a douche to go to another bar?
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Posted by: theHurtfulTurkey
A real test of a man is if he is willing to scrape a sharpened razor up and down his junk just to please a woman.

Last Friday, more than a week ago, I drove an hour to the closest -blam!- club outside my not so progressive local town to try and hook up with someone. Now, I'm not going to lie, I mostly went there to try and get laid, although that's obviously not the only reason for me going, and I'm guessing that's the main reason the majority of people go there. After about twenty minutes of snacking on fried food, crackers and my own dignity since I was to nervous to go out on the dance floor and shake my groove thang, I went and sat at the bar. After a few minutes, a guy gives me a "how you doin'" chin raise greeting thing, and asks if I want to join his group of friends in dancing, or something. I talk with him and his friends for about an hour until I had to leave to pick up my friend's boyfriend who she broke up with a week later. I got his number have been contacting him via texts for about a week, with his second text sent to me being "What u gonna do today u top or bottom"

This person and I made plans this Sunday (I thought it was planned, at least) to play Xbox games at his house, but I found out on Saturday that he actually was going out of town for a few days and that we had to cancel. Flood, I like this person, based on what I know, but I also am wondering how exclusive I'm supposed to be. I'm guessing going back to a club would be considered fooling around, but I'm not sure if this guy is even looking for an actual relationship. For instance, the group of friends he was hanging out with were all drinking and dancing together, so I'm not sure if they were all -blam!- at one of their houses, just friends, or if that's just what -blam!- guys are supposed to do. There was also a lot of touching above the waste with the guy I met, and while I didn't mind/I sort of played along, and I'm wondering if this group was formed just to fool around. I don't want to just be -blam!- about and going through people like they're expendable, nor do I want to -blam!- up a potentially good thing. So, Flood, based on what I've put in this thread, would I be a -blam!- and potentially jeporadize the potential relationship I have with the person I met if I were to go back to a club and tried to hook up with someone else?

TL;DR: This is not a wall of text. It's two paragraphs. Read or get the -blam!- out.

[Edited on 01.07.2013 12:16 PM PST]

  • 01.07.2013 3:17 AM PDT
Subject: Would I be a douche to go clubbing again?

The human element always mucks things up.

Titties.

  • 01.07.2013 3:18 AM PDT

My gamertag is Dustin Nugget, like my name here.

Closest gey club? What does blam stand for?

  • 01.07.2013 3:18 AM PDT
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Posted by: theHurtfulTurkey
A real test of a man is if he is willing to scrape a sharpened razor up and down his junk just to please a woman.


Posted by: Egerspurge
Titties.
...Heh...

  • 01.07.2013 3:19 AM PDT
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Posted by: theHurtfulTurkey
A real test of a man is if he is willing to scrape a sharpened razor up and down his junk just to please a woman.


Posted by: Dustin Nugget
Closest gey club? What does blam stand for?
Dick juggling.

  • 01.07.2013 3:19 AM PDT

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Its not nice to club baby seals.

  • 01.07.2013 3:27 AM PDT
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Nicotine babies being born with no spines

Are you a fa­g?

  • 01.07.2013 3:51 AM PDT

A cornered fox is more dangerous than a jackal.

And from FOX, two phantoms were born.

Before I go any further, are you male or female

  • 01.07.2013 3:53 AM PDT
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Posted by: Dallas Green
Are you a fa­g?


I think this sick -blam!- is. Get the hell out of here OP you freak!!!

  • 01.07.2013 3:53 AM PDT
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op are u a girl or a gey

  • 01.07.2013 3:54 AM PDT

"Living to smile, and not to succeed; smiling to inspire happiness, not to give the illusion you are happy; creativity and music to inspire smiling, which in turn inspires happiness; being nice to be happy, not for being perceived a good person."

Have you talked to the guy at all about whether things are serious or not? Has he been dropping any hints of wanting anything more than just a bit of friendship? This are the questions that matter, that need to be answered.

Without this information, I would still say that you should hold off on any 'clubbing' for the moment. No use potentially screwing something up that hasn't had the chance to grow.

[Edited on 01.07.2013 3:57 AM PST]

  • 01.07.2013 3:56 AM PDT
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Posted by: theHurtfulTurkey
A real test of a man is if he is willing to scrape a sharpened razor up and down his junk just to please a woman.


Posted by: Dallas Green
Are you a fa­g?
Ye.

  • 01.07.2013 3:56 AM PDT

I'm a Servant of The Secret Breach, haters shall not pass!
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ewwww....

  • 01.07.2013 3:58 AM PDT
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Nicotine babies being born with no spines


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Posted by: Dallas Green
Are you a fa­g?
Ye.
aww sweet

hit me up sometime ;)
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  • 01.07.2013 3:58 AM PDT

I'm 23, I have a house, dog, girlfriend, job and I have no interest in any fanboyism so if you're thinking about sending me a childish PM, don't be surprised when I don't call back.

No peepee touch? No commitments IMO.

You had one drink with this guy, you're entitled to go out for a drink whenever you want.

  • 01.07.2013 4:01 AM PDT
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Posted by: theHurtfulTurkey
A real test of a man is if he is willing to scrape a sharpened razor up and down his junk just to please a woman.


Posted by: Mind Reaper 771
Have you talked to the guy at all about whether things are serious or not? Has he been dropping any hints of wanting anything more than just a bit of friendship?
No to both, I think. There definitely haven't been any serious relationship signs, but I haven't really asked him since we haven't actually hung out since the hour in the club.

I'm kind of wondering if his "top or bottom" text was sent in a joking way or in as a serious question. It was just things like in combination with the touching that make me think that he just wants to... Ravage...

[Edited on 01.07.2013 4:05 AM PST]

  • 01.07.2013 4:02 AM PDT
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If hes that forward then hes just looking for a one night stand/friend with benefits.

If you're looking for a relationship, the club isn't the best place to go.

  • 01.07.2013 4:04 AM PDT
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For all questions with answers unknown to you, the proper procedure is to assume the answer is peanut butter.

While that may be true, I'm just going to pretend otherwise.

Huh... I thought -blam!- relationships would be a little more straight forward, no pun intended. I figured things wouldn't get confusing or lost in translation, like when the conversation goes from male-to-female and one person takes it the wrong way. Nice to know you guys have to deal with all this confusion too.

Anyway, do what you want and have fun.

  • 01.07.2013 4:47 AM PDT
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He just wants a bit of bumming. If you get your hopes up about it being serious (after what sounds like barely any contact) you're just going to end up getting hurt.

  • 01.07.2013 4:49 AM PDT
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"The hero is the one who kindles a great light in the world, who sets up blazing torches in the dark streets of life for men to see by.
The saint is the man who walks through the dark paths of the world, himself a light."
-Felix Adler

Sounds like he's in it just for a bed buddy. I don't know, without really knowing the guy I can't really say.

  • 01.07.2013 4:51 AM PDT
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Yeah... I'm that cool.
Robot Academy. Kinda sorta the best group on here.

This.
Posted by: Ason Unique
He just wants a bit of bumming. If you get your hopes up about it being serious (after what sounds like barely any contact) you're just going to end up getting hurt.

  • 01.07.2013 5:04 AM PDT
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Posted by: theHurtfulTurkey
A real test of a man is if he is willing to scrape a sharpened razor up and down his junk just to please a woman.


Posted by: Ason Unique
He just wants a bit of bumming. If you get your hopes up about it being serious (after what sounds like barely any contact) you're just going to end up getting hurt.
We've been texting each other frequently and we've been having actual conversations, and he was trying to make plans before Sunday, so I don't think he was completely just trying to find something to stick it in ... He was trying to get me drunk, though, so that's something to consider. I don't think I'm totally dead set on a serious relationship or it's a no go for a hook up, though, it'd just be nice. I'm mainly concerned with potentially screwing up my friendship with this guy by clubbing again since I'm convinced that's what he wants.

  • 01.07.2013 12:14 PM PDT
Subject: Would I be a douche to go to another bar?
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Get your gaiye posts off the Flood!!!

  • 01.07.2013 12:20 PM PDT
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Foman is my favorite moderator. <3

I would hate to be ghey and have awkward "Are you top or bottom" conversations.

As a straight man, I can be 99.99% sure that the girl I pick up at the club does not want to put anything in my butt.

  • 01.07.2013 12:23 PM PDT
Subject: Would I be a douche to go clubbing again?

Posted by: Rhea
Rhea, where the hell have you been?

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