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Subject: So those dudes that get nervous around a girl they like

It's so damn simple to overcome your nervous behavior around a girl you like or you're attracted too. Ever notice when you're talking to a girl you're not attracted or simply a girl that's your friend, you're not nervous? Think of it like that. Let that emotion substitute your nervous behavior. That is all.

  • 01.07.2013 7:42 PM PDT

心の中に弱い風が吹いています。

Well yeah.

  • 01.07.2013 7:43 PM PDT

I just project a false confidence. After a few minutes it turns into real confidence.

  • 01.07.2013 7:43 PM PDT
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He who wishes for peace must first prepare for war.

Professor Boomer, I have a question on tonight's homework.

What if we're like that with all girls? (I'm not saying that I am, mind you.)

  • 01.07.2013 7:43 PM PDT
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No point in putting something funny, clever or informative here. Most probably im going to get perma-banned anyway.

I dont get nervous around any girl. Not even when I met Hayley Williams.

  • 01.07.2013 7:43 PM PDT
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13.72 billion years in the making.

On December 1st, 2012, I met Neil deGrasse Tyson. I shook the man's hand, and even made him laugh. Not much else to do with my life now.

For some people it's difficult, for others, it isn't. It's not as simple as just mentally substituting one person for the other, a lot of people have difficulty with the pretty understandable anxiety that comes about when you're around a girl you like. I don't have the problem, but it's incredibly easy to observe and analyze how others handle it.

  • 01.07.2013 7:44 PM PDT

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Professor Boomer, I have a question on tonight's homework.

What if we're like that with all girls? (I'm not saying that I am, mind you.)

But he totally has a friend that is, and he is trying to help him. His friend, he means.

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"I know not what weapons World War III will be fought with, but I do know that World War IV will be fought with sticks and stones."

-Albert Einstein

Easy for you to say mate.

Some people have a multitude of reasons why the can't 'break out of their shell' easily and overcome personal fears. Often times, the problem is a combination of their own personal fear and inexperience.

Just my two cents.

By the way, OP, did you mean to sound overbearingly malevolent?

  • 01.07.2013 7:44 PM PDT

Ahhh Dude you don't think I've tried that? IT DOESN'T WORK LIKE THAT!

My heart starts beating different and I start sweating if I get really nervous. Not noticeable or really bad though but yeah I get warm.

The only time I'm 1000% comfortable is when we're alone.

  • 01.07.2013 7:45 PM PDT

Posted by: InClusions
Professor Boomer, I have a question on tonight's homework.

What if we're like that with all girls? (I'm not saying that I am, mind you.)

Then you're boned. Grow some hair on your balls.

  • 01.07.2013 7:45 PM PDT

Posted by: Lightning Yuna
I dont get nervous around any girl. Not even when I met Hayley Williams.

You're full of it.

  • 01.07.2013 7:46 PM PDT

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The way I think of it is whenever there's this girl I really like, I think to myself "I'm too good for her and SHE would be lucky to have me. I'm not going to prove anything to her. But she is cute so I might as well try something."

It's kind of a big-headed approach to the problem, but it works. Don't ever think that a girl is too good for you. You're too good for her. If you honestly believe that, everything else will be a piece of cake.

  • 01.07.2013 7:46 PM PDT
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Or you could just grow a pair of balls and talk to women.

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Shakes Magic 8 Ball

She took the suckers I kept grabbing for to talk to me.

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Posted by: Shane Walsh
Ahhh Dude you don't think I've tried that? IT DOESN'T WORK LIKE THAT!

My heart starts beating different and I start sweating if I get really nervous. Not noticeable or really bad though but yeah I get warm.

The only time I'm 1000% comfortable is when we're alone.

Practice. Make a process for yourself. Find some girls that are on the lower scale of attractive. Talk to them more. Eventually you'll be so comfortable with them, it's like breathing. Move up the scale till you reach the girl you're talking about. Takes time. It's not a over night miracle.

  • 01.07.2013 7:47 PM PDT

Posted by: AgentCOP1
The way I think of it is whenever there's this girl I really like, I think to myself "I'm too good for her and SHE would be lucky to have me. I'm not going to prove anything to her. But she is cute so I might as well try something."

It's kind of a big-headed approach to the problem, but it works. Don't ever think that a girl is too good for you. You're too good for her. If you honestly believe that, everything else will be a piece of cake.

That's confidence. A tad cocky. Nothing wrong with that however.

  • 01.07.2013 7:49 PM PDT

I don't get nervous around girls I like...

  • 01.07.2013 7:51 PM PDT

Posted by: SGT Rhino 76
Easy for you to say mate.

Some people have a multitude of reasons why the can't 'break out of their shell' easily and overcome personal fears. Often times, the problem is a combination of their own personal fear and inexperience.

Just my two cents.

By the way, OP, did you mean to sound overbearingly malevolent?

Of course lol.

On a side note, a lot of peoples problems approaching women is their confidence. They let the self-loathing become their personality. Attitude. That is the most important part about yourself you must fix. IF you can begin to actually like what you see in the mirror, as conceited as it may sound, it'll be a lot easier.

  • 01.07.2013 7:53 PM PDT

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Im weird in the way that when around other people I talk to them like it's a breeze but when it's one to one I struggle to find a topic to talk about.

  • 01.07.2013 7:54 PM PDT
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"I know not what weapons World War III will be fought with, but I do know that World War IV will be fought with sticks and stones."

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Posted by: SGT Rhino 76
Easy for you to say mate.

Some people have a multitude of reasons why the can't 'break out of their shell' easily and overcome personal fears. Often times, the problem is a combination of their own personal fear and inexperience.

Just my two cents.

By the way, OP, did you mean to sound overbearingly malevolent?

Of course lol.

On a side note, a lot of peoples problems approaching women is their confidence. They let the self-loathing become their personality. Attitude. That is the most important part about yourself you must fix. IF you can begin to actually like what you see in the mirror, as conceited as it may sound, it'll be a lot easier.


You can't really say that is 100% true for everybody, though.

Everyone is different.

Confidence =/= success

  • 01.07.2013 7:55 PM PDT

Posted by: msonic98
Im weird in the way that when around other people I talk to them like it's a breeze but when it's one to one I struggle to find a topic to talk about.

Just ask questions and tell a little about yourself unasked when she's talking about herself. You probably just make it a big deal. Instead of contemplating about something to talk about, talk about something that's gone on during the day. And be funny. Chicks dig funny.

  • 01.07.2013 7:56 PM PDT
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I don't like any, so this problem never occurs.

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Lol, confidence is not the solution here. Considering half of the Flood consists of disgusting gamer kiddies, the forced "confidence" will appear as little more than obnoxious and irritating behavior.

  • 01.07.2013 7:57 PM PDT

Boomer leave the poor kids alone.

For those of you who have issues it's easy. Simply make a bad joke to someone you don't know. Like say you go to the grocery store, well paying for your items make a joke. Don't know them, won't see them again you can move on happy if they laugh or not. Little things like that at every chance you get. It will take time for some of you but you will just get more and more comfortable.

I talk to women I have no business talking to looking like I do but I'm confident and they like it. All because I built myself up to being able to do so.

  • 01.07.2013 7:57 PM PDT

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