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Subject: So those dudes that get nervous around a girl they like


Posted by: I3 O O lVI E R
Posted by: Shane Walsh
Ahhh Dude you don't think I've tried that? IT DOESN'T WORK LIKE THAT!

My heart starts beating different and I start sweating if I get really nervous. Not noticeable or really bad though but yeah I get warm.

The only time I'm 1000% comfortable is when we're alone.

Practice. Make a process for yourself. Find some girls that are on the lower scale of attractive. Talk to them more. Eventually you'll be so comfortable with them, it's like breathing. Move up the scale till you reach the girl you're talking about. Takes time. It's not a over night miracle.


Dude it's easy talking to girls I don't like more than a friend. It's just this one girl. A week ago we went out eating and I don't know what to say but I don't want to sit there and be quiet so I end up saying something and then instantly feel like slapping my face against the table because I feel dumb afterwards.

It sucks considering she sees me so different when we're in a group of people and when I'm alone with her I almost want to just get whatever we're doing done with before I make a fool of myself.

  • 01.07.2013 7:57 PM PDT

Posted by: SGT Rhino 76

Posted by: I3 O O lVI E R
Posted by: SGT Rhino 76
Easy for you to say mate.

Some people have a multitude of reasons why the can't 'break out of their shell' easily and overcome personal fears. Often times, the problem is a combination of their own personal fear and inexperience.

Just my two cents.

By the way, OP, did you mean to sound overbearingly malevolent?

Of course lol.

On a side note, a lot of peoples problems approaching women is their confidence. They let the self-loathing become their personality. Attitude. That is the most important part about yourself you must fix. IF you can begin to actually like what you see in the mirror, as conceited as it may sound, it'll be a lot easier.


You can't really say that is 100% true for everybody, though.

Everyone is different.

Confidence =/= success

I cannot. It's just a matter of opinions. There's many, many factors that associate with what we're discussing. I honestly believe confidence is the main foundation.

  • 01.07.2013 7:57 PM PDT
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Posted by: I3 O O lVI E R
Posted by: InClusions
Professor Boomer, I have a question on tonight's homework.

What if we're like that with all girls? (I'm not saying that I am, mind you.)

Then you're boned. Grow some hair on your balls.


Thank you for that insight. I'll make sure to take notes and study hard tonight for tomorrows lesson.

  • 01.07.2013 7:58 PM PDT

If we disagree, it's nothing personal, opinions are opinions.
Antagonizing me to build a false sense of worth is so damn cute.

Brighten your day with science.

I talk to women almost the same way I talk to men, I've never gotten the butterflies in the stomach feelings around them.

[Edited on 01.07.2013 7:59 PM PST]

  • 01.07.2013 7:59 PM PDT

Posted by: InClusions

Posted by: I3 O O lVI E R
Posted by: InClusions
Professor Boomer, I have a question on tonight's homework.

What if we're like that with all girls? (I'm not saying that I am, mind you.)

Then you're boned. Grow some hair on your balls.


Thank you for that insight. I'll make sure to take notes and study hard tonight for tomorrows lesson.

You make me laugh. In a good way.

  • 01.07.2013 7:59 PM PDT

Posted by: Shane Walsh

Posted by: I3 O O lVI E R
Posted by: Shane Walsh
Ahhh Dude you don't think I've tried that? IT DOESN'T WORK LIKE THAT!

My heart starts beating different and I start sweating if I get really nervous. Not noticeable or really bad though but yeah I get warm.

The only time I'm 1000% comfortable is when we're alone.

Practice. Make a process for yourself. Find some girls that are on the lower scale of attractive. Talk to them more. Eventually you'll be so comfortable with them, it's like breathing. Move up the scale till you reach the girl you're talking about. Takes time. It's not a over night miracle.


Dude it's easy talking to girls I don't like more than a friend. It's just this one girl. A week ago we went out eating and I don't know what to say but I don't want to sit there and be quiet so I end up saying something and then instantly feel like slapping my face against the table because I feel dumb afterwards.

It sucks considering she sees me so different when we're in a group of people and when I'm alone with her I almost want to just get whatever we're doing done with before I make a fool of myself.

Does she laugh and smile?

  • 01.07.2013 8:00 PM PDT
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Posted by: I3 O O lVI E R
Posted by: SGT Rhino 76
You can't really say that is 100% true for everybody, though.

Everyone is different.

Confidence =/= success

I cannot. It's just a matter of opinions. There's many, many factors that associate with what we're discussing. I honestly believe confidence is the main foundation.


As do I mate.

Everybody is different.

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No point in putting something funny, clever or informative here. Most probably im going to get perma-banned anyway.


Posted by: I3 O O lVI E R
Posted by: Lightning Yuna
I dont get nervous around any girl. Not even when I met Hayley Williams.

You're full of it.


I realize theyre just people and I wont be hermed by them in any way. Embarrasment, rejection etc have no meaning to me.

As for the Hayley I meet her at a meet and greet. If I didnt get nervous around her I wont feel anything around others. Seriously, you dont even know.

  • 01.07.2013 8:02 PM PDT

Posted by: SGT Rhino 76

Posted by: I3 O O lVI E R
Posted by: SGT Rhino 76
You can't really say that is 100% true for everybody, though.

Everyone is different.

Confidence =/= success

I cannot. It's just a matter of opinions. There's many, many factors that associate with what we're discussing. I honestly believe confidence is the main foundation.


As do I mate.

Everybody is different.

Very true. When it comes to the ladies, like I said previously, there's many factors. Like your social status or just your status in general.

  • 01.07.2013 8:02 PM PDT

Posted by: Lightning Yuna

Posted by: I3 O O lVI E R
Posted by: Lightning Yuna
I dont get nervous around any girl. Not even when I met Hayley Williams.

You're full of it.


I realize theyre just people and I wont be hermed by them in any way. Embarrasment, rejection etc have no meaning to me.

As for the Hayley I meet her at a meet and greet. If I didnt get nervous around her I wont feel anything around others. Seriously, you dont even know.

I would be a little nervous meeting Hayley Williams.

  • 01.07.2013 8:03 PM PDT
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  • 01.07.2013 8:04 PM PDT


Posted by: I3 O O lVI E R
Posted by: Shane Walsh

Posted by: I3 O O lVI E R
Posted by: Shane Walsh
Ahhh Dude you don't think I've tried that? IT DOESN'T WORK LIKE THAT!

My heart starts beating different and I start sweating if I get really nervous. Not noticeable or really bad though but yeah I get warm.

The only time I'm 1000% comfortable is when we're alone.

Practice. Make a process for yourself. Find some girls that are on the lower scale of attractive. Talk to them more. Eventually you'll be so comfortable with them, it's like breathing. Move up the scale till you reach the girl you're talking about. Takes time. It's not a over night miracle.


Dude it's easy talking to girls I don't like more than a friend. It's just this one girl. A week ago we went out eating and I don't know what to say but I don't want to sit there and be quiet so I end up saying something and then instantly feel like slapping my face against the table because I feel dumb afterwards.

It sucks considering she sees me so different when we're in a group of people and when I'm alone with her I almost want to just get whatever we're doing done with before I make a fool of myself.

Does she laugh and smile?


Yeah but after stuff like that my confidence dies down and I just text her less and we grow farther apart.

[Edited on 01.07.2013 8:06 PM PST]

  • 01.07.2013 8:05 PM PDT

Posted by: Shane Walsh
Yeah but after stuff like that my confidence dies down and I just text her less and we grow farther apart.

Dude, she's laughing and smiling with you? Hello? Girls don't stick around guys they don't like first of all. Not to mention you two ate together and she's smiling at you. Damn, son. You're punching yourself in the face with this negative attitude.

  • 01.07.2013 8:08 PM PDT


Posted by: I3 O O lVI E R
Posted by: Shane Walsh
Yeah but after stuff like that my confidence dies down and I just text her less and we grow farther apart.

Dude, she's laughing and smiling with you? Hello? Girls don't stick around guys they don't like first of all. Not to mention you two ate together and she's smiling at you. Damn, son. You're punching yourself in the face with this negative attitude.


I'm just a baby rhino.

[Edited on 01.07.2013 8:22 PM PST]

  • 01.07.2013 8:12 PM PDT
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No point in putting something funny, clever or informative here. Most probably im going to get perma-banned anyway.


Posted by: I3 O O lVI E R
Posted by: Lightning Yuna

Posted by: I3 O O lVI E R
Posted by: Lightning Yuna
I dont get nervous around any girl. Not even when I met Hayley Williams.

You're full of it.


I realize theyre just people and I wont be hermed by them in any way. Embarrasment, rejection etc have no meaning to me.

As for the Hayley I meet her at a meet and greet. If I didnt get nervous around her I wont feel anything around others. Seriously, you dont even know.

I would be a little nervous meeting Hayley Williams.


Not me. I adore that woman and nothing was going to get in the way of my time with her. However short it was. So you see, she is like a Goddess to me, the rest are nothing to me.

  • 01.07.2013 8:17 PM PDT
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He who wishes for peace must first prepare for war.

This trick works every time.

(It'll get her interested)

"My thoughts are very loud. You can't hear them, can you?"


Every single time. I promise you. She won't like you instantly, but she'll definitely find you intriguing.

  • 01.07.2013 8:22 PM PDT

Posted by: Shane Walsh

Posted by: I3 O O lVI E R
Posted by: Shane Walsh
Yeah but after stuff like that my confidence dies down and I just text her less and we grow farther apart.

Dude, she's laughing and smiling with you? Hello? Girls don't stick around guys they don't like first of all. Not to mention you two ate together and she's smiling at you. Damn, son. You're punching yourself in the face with this negative attitude.


I'm just a baby rhino.

Just stop trying so hard. Smile :)

  • 01.07.2013 8:25 PM PDT

Connor Morris

Maybe some people don't handle rejection as well as others?
Maybe the girl is secretly a -blam!- and decides to blurt stuff out an embarrass you

Or maybe what happened with me once where the girl had a boyfriend and after asking her and getting rejected she tried to get her boyfriend to beat me up which didn't go so well on his part.

  • 01.07.2013 8:26 PM PDT

Posted by: Lightning Yuna

Posted by: I3 O O lVI E R
Posted by: Lightning Yuna

Posted by: I3 O O lVI E R
Posted by: Lightning Yuna
I dont get nervous around any girl. Not even when I met Hayley Williams.

You're full of it.


I realize theyre just people and I wont be hermed by them in any way. Embarrasment, rejection etc have no meaning to me.

As for the Hayley I meet her at a meet and greet. If I didnt get nervous around her I wont feel anything around others. Seriously, you dont even know.

I would be a little nervous meeting Hayley Williams.


Not me. I adore that woman and nothing was going to get in the way of my time with her. However short it was. So you see, she is like a Goddess to me, the rest are nothing to me.

Hoe beautiful is she in real life?

  • 01.07.2013 8:28 PM PDT

No u

It's really just all about not thinking about it.

  • 01.07.2013 8:30 PM PDT

ITT: People need me to write them a book.

  • 01.07.2013 8:33 PM PDT

Posted by: Simba Too Cold
ITT: People need me to write them a book.

Not to be rude, but I know way more than you do. And that's a fact.

  • 01.07.2013 8:34 PM PDT
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He who wishes for peace must first prepare for war.


Posted by: I3 O O lVI E R
Posted by: Simba Too Cold
ITT: People need me to write them a book.

Not to be rude, but I know way more than you do. And that's a fact.


Both of you are rookies, way out of your league. Whipper snappers. Boot shiners. Wet behind your ears.

  • 01.07.2013 8:35 PM PDT

Posted by: Happy Tissue
Posted by: Set Sail Armada
Why didn't Frodo just stick the ring up his ass?

Because Sam would keep turning invisible.

Posted by: Vinny White
Sex with highschool jailbait
and stamp collecting

I used to have that problem, but then I decided to stop being such a little -blam!-.

  • 01.07.2013 8:36 PM PDT


Posted by: I3 O O lVI E R
Posted by: Simba Too Cold
ITT: People need me to write them a book.

Not to be rude, but I know way more than you do. And that's a fact.


Whatever helps you sleep at night.

  • 01.07.2013 8:37 PM PDT

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