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Subject: Someone is trying to flirt with the girl I've been going out with
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We're not official or anything, but we have been dating for the past few months. Don't know if she is actually into me but we talk a lot. Anyway this dude keeps trying to talk to her as well even though she told me they aren't that close. So basically trying to hit on her. And it's pretty obvious he is being a little too nice even if he just wants to be friends with her. And actually there are two guys. She told me the other guy was just her good friend, but he actually bragged about her being his girlfriend and it's pretty obvious he really likes her. They actually went out several times too, but to my knowledge not in several months and only a few times.

Flood what should I do. I should I challenge them to a duel? Okay. But really, what should I do?

[Edited on 01.08.2013 2:52 AM PST]

  • 01.08.2013 2:50 AM PDT

Let her do what she wants if she's not faithful to you now chances are she won't be later on either.

  • 01.08.2013 2:52 AM PDT

"Pwn the Nerds,No Scope the Noobs,and Dominate the Pros"

she's a h0.

  • 01.08.2013 2:53 AM PDT

She's probably been with that guy for a few years and is testing the water.

  • 01.08.2013 2:58 AM PDT

still here

PUBLIC FIGHT

  • 01.08.2013 2:58 AM PDT
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Posted by: AK FROST
She's probably been with that guy for a few years and is testing the water.

Which guy? The first guy or the second guy?

The first guy she didn't even meet until like half a year ago, the other guy like one year ago. To be honest neither of them seem to have much chance to get her because they are just too different.

  • 01.08.2013 3:00 AM PDT


Posted by: Slap My Nuts

Posted by: AK FROST
She's probably been with that guy for a few years and is testing the water.

Which guy? The first guy or the second guy?

The first guy she didn't even meet until like half a year ago, the other guy like one year ago. To be honest neither of them seem to have much chance to get her because they are just too different.
I guess I depends on how honest she is being. She could be very dishonest with you and you would never know.

  • 01.08.2013 3:02 AM PDT
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Posted by: AK FROST

Posted by: Slap My Nuts

Posted by: AK FROST
She's probably been with that guy for a few years and is testing the water.

Which guy? The first guy or the second guy?

The first guy she didn't even meet until like half a year ago, the other guy like one year ago. To be honest neither of them seem to have much chance to get her because they are just too different.
I guess I depends on how honest she is being. She could be very dishonest with you and you would never know.

I know because she moved here last year lol.

  • 01.08.2013 3:11 AM PDT
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"The hero is the one who kindles a great light in the world, who sets up blazing torches in the dark streets of life for men to see by.
The saint is the man who walks through the dark paths of the world, himself a light."
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Ask her if she's into you.

  • 01.08.2013 3:12 AM PDT

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Posted by: Slap My Nuts
We're not official or anything, but we have been dating for the past few months.

Then you're not dating. Since you are not official I don't see why you'd think other guys shouldn't be flirting with her. Either start an actual relationship, or it's your fault.

  • 01.08.2013 3:12 AM PDT

Ah, then take her to your place and get r done. Serious note she's sleeping around if your not official pro tip. That's ok you be unofficial too and do it right back.

[Edited on 01.08.2013 3:14 AM PST]

  • 01.08.2013 3:12 AM PDT

I Would Have Been Your Daddy

Posted by: Slap My Nuts
[Someone is trying to flirt with the girl I've been going out with
Write her a poem and STICK IT IN HER mailbox

  • 01.08.2013 3:14 AM PDT
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Posted by: Marinade
Posted by: Slap My Nuts
We're not official or anything, but we have been dating for the past few months.

Then you're not dating. Since you are not official I don't see why you'd think other guys shouldn't be flirting with her. Either start an actual relationship, or it's your fault.

Whoever gave you the idea that dating means you have to be in a long term relationship? A lot of the time it leads to that and continues during that but doesn't mean it is exclusive for long term relationships.

  • 01.08.2013 3:20 AM PDT

This happens in relationships. You can trust her and not be nosey or you can get involved and see whats up. Both choices have their pros and cons. If you trust her she will also trust you too and she will respect you for not being overprotective. But if she is cheating you wont know until its too late and if you get involved its pretty much vice versa.

  • 01.08.2013 3:22 AM PDT

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Posted by: Slap My Nuts

Posted by: Marinade
Posted by: Slap My Nuts
We're not official or anything, but we have been dating for the past few months.

Then you're not dating. Since you are not official I don't see why you'd think other guys shouldn't be flirting with her. Either start an actual relationship, or it's your fault.

Whoever gave you the idea that dating means you have to be in a long term relationship? A lot of the time it leads to that and continues during that but doesn't mean it is exclusive for long term relationships.


No. What you are describing is being good friends. Talking a lot and going out to places, but not official. If people don't know you are together, then you can't blame them for hitting on her. Plain and simple, stop being a beta about it and assert your role in your relationship, or don't have one.

To put it bluntly that is.

  • 01.08.2013 3:33 AM PDT

signatures are for fa- wait

Challenge him to a game of cards to assert your dominance.

  • 01.08.2013 3:34 AM PDT
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Posted by: Conster 110

Posted by: Slap My Nuts

Posted by: Marinade
Posted by: Slap My Nuts
We're not official or anything, but we have been dating for the past few months.

Then you're not dating. Since you are not official I don't see why you'd think other guys shouldn't be flirting with her. Either start an actual relationship, or it's your fault.

Whoever gave you the idea that dating means you have to be in a long term relationship? A lot of the time it leads to that and continues during that but doesn't mean it is exclusive for long term relationships.


No. What you are describing is being good friends. Talking a lot and going out to places, but not official. If people don't know you are together, then you can't blame them for hitting on her. Plain and simple, stop being a beta about it and assert your role in your relationship, or don't have one.

To put it bluntly that is.

We both express interest though. Though it is true that I cannot be sure if she actually means it or if she just says that because she knows I'm interested.

  • 01.08.2013 3:39 AM PDT

@spaboolly


Posted by: Slap My Nuts
Do you post a different girl thread every day?

  • 01.08.2013 3:42 AM PDT

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Posted by: Slap My Nuts

Posted by: Conster 110

No. What you are describing is being good friends. Talking a lot and going out to places, but not official. If people don't know you are together, then you can't blame them for hitting on her. Plain and simple, stop being a beta about it and assert your role in your relationship, or don't have one.

To put it bluntly that is.

We both express interest though. Though it is true that I cannot be sure if she actually means it or if she just says that because she knows I'm interested.


Do other people know you are an 'item'? I'm just saying, if people don't then you need to work fast before she friend zones you and dates another guy.

  • 01.08.2013 3:44 AM PDT

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Slap his ass

  • 01.08.2013 3:49 AM PDT

In the words of Richard from the breakfast club, tell him "I'll knock your dick in the dirt."

But seriously, make it known that she's yours.

  • 01.08.2013 3:59 AM PDT

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Posted by: Slap My Nuts
Posted by: Marinade
Posted by: Slap My Nuts
We're not official or anything, but we have been dating for the past few months.

Then you're not dating. Since you are not official I don't see why you'd think other guys shouldn't be flirting with her. Either start an actual relationship, or it's your fault.

Whoever gave you the idea that dating means you have to be in a long term relationship? A lot of the time it leads to that and continues during that but doesn't mean it is exclusive for long term relationships.

You said yourself that you are not official. By the sounds of things you've gone on some dates, but that's it.

If you haven't discussed and agreed to be in an exclusive relationship, then you aren't in one. Either have that discussion or stop complaining that other guys are showing interest in a girl you aren't officially dating.

  • 01.08.2013 4:07 AM PDT

william

punch him in the face

  • 01.08.2013 4:09 AM PDT
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Posted by: Marinade
Posted by: Slap My Nuts
Posted by: Marinade
Posted by: Slap My Nuts
We're not official or anything, but we have been dating for the past few months.

Then you're not dating. Since you are not official I don't see why you'd think other guys shouldn't be flirting with her. Either start an actual relationship, or it's your fault.

Whoever gave you the idea that dating means you have to be in a long term relationship? A lot of the time it leads to that and continues during that but doesn't mean it is exclusive for long term relationships.

You said yourself that you are not official. By the sounds of things you've gone on some dates, but that's it.

If you haven't discussed and agreed to be in an exclusive relationship, then you aren't in one. Either have that discussion or stop complaining that other guys are showing interest in a girl you aren't officially dating.

Probably won't have to make it known. I know the girl pretty well and those guys almost certainly have no chance with her. But yeah I'll still work towards that exclusivity. We're making good progress, and maybe in a few months I can get the job done.

  • 01.08.2013 4:12 AM PDT

Slap HIS nuts!

  • 01.08.2013 4:18 AM PDT

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